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whens new update

bro this is my old site leave it alone :(

no

I'm still alive

1 more day until this site gets updated

xd just be like me and write things mid-school (on the other hand, i doubt u are in a school where you sit around in most classes except for Algebra and English I)

on a serious note tho, lets goooo. I have quite a few plans for the summer (https://digitalcheese.xyz/w/s/5212024.html) so I hope to get them done before the end of the summer XD.

1-2 and 5 will be harder to finish all within the summer, but 3-4 and 6-7 should be easily doable within the summer.

@dc-blog yea i dont get much free time in school lol. also good luck on ur summer resolutions ig lol

4 will actually probably be done in a few days minus mass-archival which might not start until AFTER school starts back anyways due to the fact I am still focusing more on posting blogs on Paint before I archive them all (wanna reach 1k), otherwise tho I need to try to get all of that done

Also thx xd

np lol

ggs my dude

nice!!

YEAAHH

Nice

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brooooo i’d say that’s a win!!!

OMG YAY DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just don't push too much, let them open up to you!!!!!! YOU GOT THIS DUDE :3

thx guys! @chaoticdreamz ill follow the advice thx

YOOOOOOOOOOOOO 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 LET'S GO!!!!!!!!!!

Woot woot! Congrats! She seems smart / emotionally self-aware. I also second what chaoticdreamz said. Some of the best advice that I ever got about dating was a bit subtle in that it dealt more with understanding oneself (e.g.: personal standards/boundaries), rather than doing anything specific. If I were to try to summarize it:

1. Assuming that one is dating in order to find a long-term life partner, core values can only be uncovered through careful observation of behavior in various circumstances and through many dialogues about personal beliefs and experiences, NOT necessarily through physical affection. What will signal that you are compatible on a deep level?

2. While one should try to continually grow into their best self (e.g.: well-groomed, considerate, etc.), they should NOT try to become something that they are not in an attempt to impress others, no matter how much they like them. What can be reasonably sustained? And moreover, is the effort mutual?

...Sorry to go on and on, but those two ideas have saved me *a lot* of heartache when it comes to relationships and I wish that someone had told me them sooner. I hope the dates go well! ;-)

thanks for the info @letslearntogether! this will help a lot!

!!! Everyone wants to put input into your love life haha. 1) Be honest but don't go into too many details, there's a big future for tht. 2) Have fun, big future for serious stuff. 3) Ask questions, your date wants to talk about their life/interests. 4) Look beyond words for common shared values. 5) Don't compromise personal beliefs to impress. 6) Don't obsess or overthink. Metal dating advice column? haha

Congratulations. A date is a good start. You're young but take your time and don't try to rush things along. If you don't know, ask your friends for advice.

AHH DUDE CONGRATS

FUCKIN WIN

cAN i BE SHOT? PLEASE? I DESERVE IT

IS THTA ABIGBLUEWORLD V2 :SOB:

I think it is 😭