what an awesome website! :D i've explored it a bit and found some cool things: you're de-googling resource list is so good and comes at the perfect time, as i'm currently trying to do just that. Thanks for the follow, means a lot!
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i wish there was a way to block/mute things relating to certain people on neocities. i get it's probably to avoid the infighting of social media. but i wanna use it to avoid this one creator (who ironically is the center of some drama right now)
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lakestheguy
4 months ago
basically vivarism thinks that trans people are inherently sexist & has a bunch of site updates that are just her complaining abt trans women and the backlash she got from this
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nathanntan
4 months ago
i'm also greatly affected by this, as i tend to spiral down that rabbit hole of negativity. My way of dealing with it is.. trying to have a civil discussion. But sometimes I wonder if it's even worth it: some people just aren't open to changing their minds. I apologise if my reply to her popped up on your feed and stirred some emotions. I'm still figuring out how to deal with all the negativity online. Sending a hug!
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lakestheguy
4 months ago
@nathanntan don't worry. it's fine. it isn't your fault. you did the right thing. i just hate having to engage with transphobes online
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technostalgia
4 months ago
Maybe don't spread the "drama" if you basically want to avoid conflict. Disappointed to read even more about this, the words feed the story and it keeps the story of this active malevolence
i just wanted to say i like your blog posts or diary entries. you have a very interesting perspective and at times i find it easy to relate to
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limovars
4 months ago
man your blog takes me back... down to the font & transparency. really well done.
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OMG THX FOR FOLLOWING!! btw i followed u back bc i acc LOVE the layout of ur site!! its like so cute lol
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found a new matrix server. albeit i have mixed feelings about the rules since no piracy but eh at least i can find chats that arent purely abt foss or privacy there
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update about matrix: my app for it wont start up lately. so i'm sorry if anyone messaged me on it
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