omg thats such a good way of describing it! ahaha thank you!!

hihi, thanks for letting me know! I've updated it in the webring :3

i found a solution. if i'ma be on special sauce there's got to be content to be shared. website is back up on a new domain. thank you everybody for your support, your kindness, your compassion, and your understanding while i've been going through some tough shit. i love this community <3

is everything okay? Send me an email if you’d like to talk :(

i'm getting harassed by my ex's friends and his new partner, and i don't have the strength to deal with it. i don't have any solution for now except disappearing.

Seems like some people got nothing better to do with their time.. sorry this is happening to you, and i hope they leave you alone soon. Maybe it would be good to also remove content mentioning any of the, cutting them from your life for good. Hope you can sort it out soon and you can get back with your website :(

yeah, i don't plan on having a blog anymore whenever i do decide to put it back online. i was foolish for thinking he was the loml.

i am so sorry to hear that, sending nothing but love your way

That's horrible, please be good to yourself! Let some one near you know so you don't have to face this all alone!

such immature people. sending a hug, kkb <3

i'm so sorry you're going through this rn ♡

This is awful, I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this <3

man wattahell, what an immature ass reaction :( sending you a hug!!!

That's so unfair. Ur ex and his friends/gf is definitely getting their karma soon. Sending lots of love 🩷

oh no:( i will miss you and your site so much, but i can totally understand why do you wanna take a break. i can't believe someone could just find time to harass you, who is not even bothering them!!! karma will get their assess!!!! sending you tons of love <3

people can be so immature and vindictive ): I really loved you're site and I hope you come back soon! Take as much time off as you need though.

im really not okay. i wish theyd just leave me the hell alone.

so sorry about that... they must have taken the time to trawl through your entire blog to dig that up. what a fucking creep with nothing better to do. i know atabook has a feature to block IP addresses, you could try that if your chat function has something similar

this is awful!! definitely follow what @limovars suggested and block their IP. people like that just waste time spreading hate :/ i’m really sorry you’re dealing with this, and i’m always here if you want to talk. <3

I had the same type of trouble when I started my site and and just ended up throwing away my guestbook and chat box. I'm sorry you have to go through this, I hope that idiot bumps into every table on the planet forever.

you're better than them, kkb. don't forget that 💛

This sounds bad actually, I gotta confess that someone stalked me online too. The best you blocked them as limovars said and move on. I hope you are doing fine right now...

Keep banning them whenever they appear. I'm not sure how the ban feature works for chattable but I'm sure they'll need too much free time to circumvent it. While logged in, Right click on their message and click Ban

god they left another msg

People can be so gross. I'm sorry 😔

that person is so lame!!! i know how seeing such things feels very demotivating, but remember that they know absolutely nothing about yourself and how you are as a person <3

was able to speak to my ex directly, he asked me to stop mentioning him by name on my blog (fine) and apparently his friends have been checking my website and telling him about it and he was complaining about it. got a bit of closure at least.

thank you everyone, and @kuroi i did end up banning them, hopefully that's enough, but i'm really scared i'm gonna wake up to more msgs again tomorrow @_@ i've asked some friends to keep an eye on it overnight so crossing fingers