i wish there was a way to block/mute things relating to certain people on neocities. i get it's probably to avoid the infighting of social media. but i wanna use it to avoid this one creator (who ironically is the center of some drama right now)
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drama in neocities? that's new for me xD I'd love to know the tea tho 👀
basically vivarism thinks that trans people are inherently sexist & has a bunch of site updates that are just her complaining abt trans women and the backlash she got from this
i'm also greatly affected by this, as i tend to spiral down that rabbit hole of negativity. My way of dealing with it is.. trying to have a civil discussion. But sometimes I wonder if it's even worth it: some people just aren't open to changing their minds. I apologise if my reply to her popped up on your feed and stirred some emotions. I'm still figuring out how to deal with all the negativity online. Sending a hug!
@nathanntan don't worry. it's fine. it isn't your fault. you did the right thing. i just hate having to engage with transphobes online
Maybe don't spread the "drama" if you basically want to avoid conflict. Disappointed to read even more about this, the words feed the story and it keeps the story of this active malevolence