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cabbage sorter was updated.
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sussuri 1 week ago

i totally love the new about page

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cabbagesorter 1 week ago

hehehe thank you

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vivarism 6 days ago

You've always had the coolest brand of minimalism... Peak webdesign once again

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cabbagesorter 5 days ago

thank you flonne, hearing this from u is such a compliment hehe

cabbage sorter was updated.
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mental-labour 1 week ago

hello sorter of cabbage

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snowibunni 1 week ago

I enjoyed reading your Tera history even if I know only a little about it. Very interesting regardless!

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cabbagesorter 1 week ago

omg thanks for giving this TOME a read im glad you liked it!

cabbage sorter was updated.
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angeleyesprings 1 week ago

Your Tera shrine is so pretty!

22yk01 1 week ago

it's lovely!

cabbagesorter 1 week ago

thanks you two (*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ)

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22yk01 2 weeks ago

100% agree.. that is so sad, I wonder how that happens so fast

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murid 2 weeks ago

As we say in Asia, marriage isn't between individuals. You marry the entire family.

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saint-images 2 weeks ago

Curious how despite the both of us being Slavic (although from very distantly related groups), in Russia a "traditional" 21st century wedding is mostly all about the bride: the guests, the decor, the theme, everything is decided by her with some tips from the family. The thing that happened on your sister's friend's wedding would weird out both the "traditional" and the "progressive" alike here.

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sussuri 2 weeks ago

it made me think about one of my cousins who had one of these pompous "traditional" weddings back in the late 00s and it was all about her husband's family and friends. they both married in a registrar and in a church which was really stupid as 10 years later they separated because he was fucking horrible towards her

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sussuri 2 weeks ago

catholic marriage is a hell, as getting a divorce, well getting it anulled is tedious process to go through. i have someone going through it and it's a nightmare, even after having strong evidence in canonical court and being separated for years already

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cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

@22yk01 so true, i have no idea how people manage to do a 180 that fast, and i cant help but wonder if theyre happy or just doing it because "it's the natural thing to do at my age" etc

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cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

@murid yea true, but you know registrars office marriage are not at all uncommon here despite the country being catholic, yet it feels like younger gens are starting to fall into the tradcath blackhole because of our general rise of ultra nationalism etc. i feel like it all kind of stems from that. my friend told me there were some literal sieg hiel tier moments at that other wedding i mentioned. forgot to say that

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cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

@saint-images you know i thought that's how it was here as well, but i guess i was wrong lmao. often the groom will be too shy to go against his families wishes so they end up dominating. and its always the more conservative side that wins funnily enough

cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

@sussuri yes in the case of divorce it's such a pain in the ass!! and like, why bother, why risk?

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nekonokuni 2 weeks ago

It's common to priests call a bride a broodmare in your country? LOL wth, I didn't went to many weddings in my life but I know that this is offensive (at least in my country).

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cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

It totally depends on the priest and what they decide to say, but this one said something along the lines of "now that you joined in this union you must fulfill your wifely duties and make children and guard the home" etc. it sounds more uh.. raw in my language haha

cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

When I was getting married in the registrar's office the lady marrying us read an extremely nice text that was completely based on equality, partnership and mutual respect - I honestly thought that church weddings werent much different.

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cabbagesorter 2 weeks ago

Oh and one last thing, young couples have to attend "sex education" church classes before getting married on which they just throw church propaganda at you lmao. It's really demeaning

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moonie 2 weeks ago

!! Reading things like this, I am glad that I am an assertive woman and my husband respects and loves me for it. My mother in law tried to take control of our very non-traditional wedding and I told her to back off, if she wanted to have another wedding, she could get re-married herself. She made some rude comment to my husband (her son, who she disrespects all the time) about us eventually getting divorced...

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moonie 2 weeks ago

Either way, things are still tense between my MIL and I to this day since I have no respect for her, but guess what? My husband and I have been happily married for 9 years now! AND I got the wedding I wanted lol

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oops hehe
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apologies for posting stuff on here that i meant to post as a reply to a thread!
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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

all good didnt even notice lmao

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I literally never make posts here but this got me angry enough - divsel keeps following and unfollowing me like a bot every once in a while. He does the same with liking posts as well but I guess he noticed it's too obvious. Super annoying, imagine if we all did that, there wouldn't be much use for follows and likes anymore, now would there? Sick of this spammy behavior...
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hardmachine 3 weeks ago

I liked his site and I ended up unfollowing and blocking him for this, but I still get the follow-unfollow cycle from him.

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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

ah yup that pretty much confirms he's using some simple script... this stuff is driving me nuts, especially because he disabled all comments on his profile lmao

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hardmachine 3 weeks ago

Unlike Federi and that mentally unstable teenager he does have a site with substance and isn't harassing anyone, so I don't think he should be "banned" but I wish using (what I think is) a script wouldn't be allowed here. Go back to Mastodon or Tumblr if you want to farm followers for visibility this bad.

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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

yeah i agree it's unnecessary for him to get banned, but this kind of advertising is so annoying because it's exploiting a system we're all civil enough to follow and not abuse zzz

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datoxicwaltz 3 weeks ago

maybe block them

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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

it doesnt help lmaoo

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engelsbeginn 3 weeks ago

He's definitely using a script. He's been doing the cycle with me for weeks, and even though I've blocked him it continues. I wish he'd fuck off.

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suboptimalism 3 weeks ago

i think the script is based on the global activity feed, following sites when they appear there

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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

I noticed that too, especially when he just like spammed every update, you could go into global activity and every single update in the past day would have his like...

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saddleblasters 3 weeks ago

Won't he just get shadowbanned eventually as more and more people block him? it doesn't seem like like this sort of thing can last very long

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saddleblasters 3 weeks ago

in his latest post he laments the presence of social media features in neocities, the exact features he is abusing. he also is a self-professed "true nihilist", so maybe this is all some elaborate scheme to emphasize the internal contradictions of neocities and hasten its collapse

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moonview 3 weeks ago

incredibly weird behavior... i read his recent article about "the decline of neocities" but he seems to be the one actively making the social aspects of NC more annoying to use than normal...

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cabbagesorter 3 weeks ago

@saddleblasters @moonview yeah it seems hes generally disheartened by neocities but like come on bro you dont have to make it worse for those of us that enjoy the limited social features it does have. tbh if likes and follows got turned off tomorrow id survive just fine but as it is i like follows as a passive way of finding new interesting sites without my usual last updated trawling

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allyratworld 3 weeks ago

He's being incredibly rude doing this to get attention on a web hosting platform. I usually say if you want more eyes on your site make a better site. But his site's already decent, so what's his deal??

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yourdevilfriends 3 weeks ago

Blocking him does nothing either, I know of someone who has him blocked because of this and his script still targets their profile.

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lazer-bunny 3 weeks ago

I wish that blocking someone on here meant they couldn't re-follow you. It surprises me that it doesn't work that way.

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snowibunni 3 weeks ago

A trick I learned out of curiosity: if you unblock him, then reblock, it removes him again from your followers. You have to do this manually each time. It's only a temporary trick until he runs the script again but it makes me feel better to remove his name lol.

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irony-machine 3 weeks ago

it seems like the blocked users behavior is being addressed https://github.com/neocities/neocities/issues/520

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irony-machine 3 weeks ago

errr i just noticed that the person who posted the issue to github is called divselector, could it divsel themselves is running some sort of test?

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moonview 3 weeks ago

@irony-machine: i would hope this is the case but why wouldn't he make it obvious he was doing so? without that context it just comes off creepy and borderline stalker-ish...

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irony-machine 3 weeks ago

@moonview i agree with you on that, he could be testing on accounts of his own and not bother anyone. hell, the github issue message he wrote mentions it being a problematic behavior.

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pomelo 3 weeks ago

@irony-machine that is their github its linked on this page next to the red button: https://divsel.neocities.org/divchan

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runjumpreviews 3 weeks ago

god yes he's fucking obnoxious. I've already tried blocking him but it's done nothing, hopefully enough people will get sick of him spam liking them and he'll get banned

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