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100% agree.. that is so sad, I wonder how that happens so fast

As we say in Asia, marriage isn't between individuals. You marry the entire family.

Curious how despite the both of us being Slavic (although from very distantly related groups), in Russia a "traditional" 21st century wedding is mostly all about the bride: the guests, the decor, the theme, everything is decided by her with some tips from the family. The thing that happened on your sister's friend's wedding would weird out both the "traditional" and the "progressive" alike here.

it made me think about one of my cousins who had one of these pompous "traditional" weddings back in the late 00s and it was all about her husband's family and friends. they both married in a registrar and in a church which was really stupid as 10 years later they separated because he was fucking horrible towards her

catholic marriage is a hell, as getting a divorce, well getting it anulled is tedious process to go through. i have someone going through it and it's a nightmare, even after having strong evidence in canonical court and being separated for years already

@22yk01 so true, i have no idea how people manage to do a 180 that fast, and i cant help but wonder if theyre happy or just doing it because "it's the natural thing to do at my age" etc

@murid yea true, but you know registrars office marriage are not at all uncommon here despite the country being catholic, yet it feels like younger gens are starting to fall into the tradcath blackhole because of our general rise of ultra nationalism etc. i feel like it all kind of stems from that. my friend told me there were some literal sieg hiel tier moments at that other wedding i mentioned. forgot to say that

@saint-images you know i thought that's how it was here as well, but i guess i was wrong lmao. often the groom will be too shy to go against his families wishes so they end up dominating. and its always the more conservative side that wins funnily enough

@sussuri yes in the case of divorce it's such a pain in the ass!! and like, why bother, why risk?

It's common to priests call a bride a broodmare in your country? LOL wth, I didn't went to many weddings in my life but I know that this is offensive (at least in my country).

It totally depends on the priest and what they decide to say, but this one said something along the lines of "now that you joined in this union you must fulfill your wifely duties and make children and guard the home" etc. it sounds more uh.. raw in my language haha

When I was getting married in the registrar's office the lady marrying us read an extremely nice text that was completely based on equality, partnership and mutual respect - I honestly thought that church weddings werent much different.

Oh and one last thing, young couples have to attend "sex education" church classes before getting married on which they just throw church propaganda at you lmao. It's really demeaning

!! Reading things like this, I am glad that I am an assertive woman and my husband respects and loves me for it. My mother in law tried to take control of our very non-traditional wedding and I told her to back off, if she wanted to have another wedding, she could get re-married herself. She made some rude comment to my husband (her son, who she disrespects all the time) about us eventually getting divorced...

Either way, things are still tense between my MIL and I to this day since I have no respect for her, but guess what? My husband and I have been happily married for 9 years now! AND I got the wedding I wanted lol

"Her" was mid on release, I can only imagine how annoying it must be in current year... I'm sorry it disappointed you so much!!! I at least love the score, Aphex Twin did some nice piano stuff... I hope your robot vacuum performs well and that your life stays at just the right level of anxiety for you <3 Unironically very aspirational heh

Honestly I don't understand what I was so hyped for, I don't even like spike jonze's movies generally, he never struck a chord with me. Oh wow I didn't know aphex twin did the score! And thank you heh Throughout recent years I had to come to terms with the fact that life's anxieties will be unavoidable..

spike jonze should have stayed a music video director. i didn't realize how mid her actually is. anyway shorter hair is insanely confortable, i'm glad i finally got it cut shorter this year... hip lenght hair is fun but it always felt like a nightmare to maintain for me

robot vaccums are mid depending which one you got. my parents got a tefal one first which was incredibly mid and then they got a roomba but they gave it away to someone as they didn't want to use the app though i heard people like them. a least they got them for free from some bonus program that suppliers in our industry have. for me it would be a cordless vaccum

it was super disappointing indeed, the cinematography wasn't too terrible and the interiors looked nice at points but the outside shots didn't really stun me. i remember hearing how its such a good looking movie too... and fr long hair is a bother as cool as it is

we got uhhh roborock s7 maxv something like that, tbh even if theyre not amazing theyre suited for our apartment which is entirely tiles and theres a lot of surface the vacuum can reach because we don't have a lot of furniture. so far im pretty happy with it!

you're making a sotc shrine?! i can't wait! this is such a coincidence, i've been thinking about how i want to re-play it again and finally finish ico and tlg.

Yess i am!! I was thinking of doing a silly gimmick with the shrine, i hope itll work out lmao. Let me enable you - go finish ico!! It's such a good game and it'll be worth your time. The save screen music is the default music that plays in my brain to this day, and I love to listen to it on repeat while I do html/css

Happy Gacha Day!!! I think splurging for completionist reasons makes sense, so "yay willpower" indeed! This character's face is sooooo cute too.. Like the balance of her features is just perf

hehe thank you... she's my second baby i love her and cherish her 😭😭

more pose footage, yay!!! the fairy wings are so gorgeous... i love how much thought you put into your outfits, like the fact that things can't be tweaked 100% to your liking means you have to get a lil creative and it's most definitely paying off

yes i agree, when you have to work around an item it sparks some extra creativity... but sadly it does limit its use! thankfully theres not that many items like that ingame

these are all so beatiful, the mythology and forest critters are my favorite, that golden bow and arrow..... it activates my almonds i need it

I always love getting to check out the updates to your Life Makeover page whenever they pop up, your creations are seriously so pretty ;__;

thank you pom!! i love the artemis fit so much too... such a shame i missed out on that bow ingame!!!

@cloveratelier hehe thank you im glad you enjoy my lm updates, mostly because i feel like im spamming them too often sometimes but i love to create outfits in this game so much lmao

beautiful* lol. aww thats a shame! hopefully they will add it back in at some point!

the skating pose is so cute!!! i love the drama of it all, and the way she owns her fail... are there any other dynamic poses you really like? i'd love to see more footage of them, and more lm updates in general. who cares if there's a lot of them? youre obviously having fun!!!

thank you flonne!! yes i love good expressive poses, its a shame most others are just very "proper" instead. I'll post my other favourites with my future outfits hehe

somehow missed the peter griffin cosplay, that's hilarious! the forest outfits you made are really divine, they look like guardians of their domain. and that fall in the video! almost as if she did it on purpose to endear you to her.

hahah ty!! im glad the forest critters were a hit i enjoyed making both outfits a ton hehe and indeed the fall animation is so endearing...

i think the people who love purebred ungodly abominations uwu think of them as objects rather than living creatures. like how you can sit on a chair without worrying about hurting it-- they're made to be sat on. those dogs are made to be cute, not healthy, so their ability to run and play and not die of cancer is a total afterthought... can't relate

agreed it really does seem that way. in my acquaintances case - her frenchie is a poor anxious mess that pukes everywhere he goes and up until recently he had been forced to hop from place to place because her and her ex shared custody of him lmao.. im glad she realized the dog was so anxious (after a long time) but it still baffles me

Irresponsible dog breeding makes me so mad. My family had a ~mystery~ rescue puppy when I was a kid. No idea what she was when they got her, she grew up to be a bull dog monstrosity the size of a pony. Bred for dog fighting. She was ridiculously muscular, decapitated possums in a single bite, tore the tendons in her hind legs under the weight of her own muscles. Poor baby died of heart failure at 5 years old.

that poor creature ;_;

i never understood how people don't feel bad about purposely bringing animals to existence knowing they'll suffer from their genetics, i wish more people would talk about it. It breaks my heart that people keep doing this when there's so many dogs that never get adopted from shelters too

while ago i saw a cute guy walking 3 frenchies. none of them used their hind paws to walk, they just dragged them behind them. dog breeders now are obsesed with purity instead of imporoving the breed, best case of it is that LUA dalmatians won't be classified as purebreed dalmatians despite being 99.98% pure and they are actually healthy

but they won't be considered "pure" because of a well done crossbreeding with a pointer 50 years ago which reintroduced much needed genes to make them healthy. but nooo, breeders will be obsessed with muh purity and they will backcross dogs so many times that they will become completely deformed

i think it was on pedigree dogs exposed, there was one champion pekinese which had exact same dog in 3 generations back. sickening

People who buy purebred dogs and cats just want to have a pet to show status, everytime I go jogging in my neighborhood 90% of the people that are walking their dogs are with a breed dog (pitbull, golden retriever, labrador, etc) I barely can see someone walking with a stray/mutt (also called "vira-lata" here). And the shelters are always full but no one wants a "no breed" dog

I even saw on pinterest someone that said that "a breed dog have a predictable temperament" and "that a stray dog can be dangerous" and "I want a allergy free dog" (girl, dogs aren't duvets to be "allergy free" lol) and I say this as someone who doesn't like dogs in general. Don't even get me started in how breed cats are so freakish and alien (like wth is a lykoi cat?? that barely resemble a real life cat wtf)

About breeders, just watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHscMam4W7s (warning: this video is not for those with a weak heart, you may feel utterly disgusted by their actions/way of thinking)