vivarism
2 weeks ago
WOW i totally forgot to crosspost my updates here last week... i really need a "website publication" checklist haha. anyways i'm blogging about my mental health again, now with a trauma narrative to set myself free. there are no trigger warnings so please read mindfully
vivarism
4 weeks ago
here's week 2 of my husbando questionnaire!!! thank you everyone for keeping up with me, wah i'm so happy ^__+^
vivarism
1 month ago
totally forgot to crosspost my husbando questionnaire update here!!! at this point, rss might be the more reliable way to keep up with me hahaha, but i'll never leave neocities, i promise :+) i also made some 32x32 icons for use in Cboxes... ESPECIALLY MINE!!!!
vivarism
1 month ago
updated my now page after 8 months!! i've also put a cbox on the front page so feel free to come chat!!
vivarism
1 month ago
i made a page all about gokiburi-chan!!! and finally put up a gallery for my SANSDOLL bjd :+D there's lots of other little things, too, mostly teasing content to come... can you find it all?!
daughterofbilitis
1 month ago
goki-chan and san's dynamic is so interesting and i really love how you draw them! also her antennae are so cute! <3
vivarism
1 month ago
thank you so much, melody and celeste!!! especially about her antennae hehehe, it took a few tries to get them right!
vivarism
1 month ago
finally... at long lost....... vivarism's giant anti man anti troon essay.........
vivarism
1 month ago
thank you so much kiley!!!! for your longer comment in my gb too, i'll reply there soon :+D and thank you to everyone else who chooses to remain in the shadows. one day we'll all be vindicated
vivarism
5 months ago
hi, do you feel more masculine when you mansplain intersectionality to a black lesbian? what YOU only find in books is my everyday experience. if your lily white ass is willing to read crenshaw then why dont you pick up some adichie while you're at it
vivarism
5 months ago
let that hold you over while i'm writing the next part of my essay. then you can come back to my profile and farm some more clout <3 and from the dawn of time to now and forevermore, NOTHING you say or do will make "trans women" anything but men in misogynistic costumes
nathanntan
5 months ago
Hi again! Your reply was incredibly rude for no reason. I'm not interested in acting masculine, and I had four women (all cis, since that matters to you) check it before I sent it to you. So let's not use mansplaining as an excuse to dismiss actual critic.
nathanntan
5 months ago
Yours is not constructive dialogue whatsoever, it's just being rude. And yes, I have also studied Adichie, gave an exam about her just in february. That wasn't the "got ya" moment you thought it was. "Nothing you say will change the fact that trans women ect.", that just shows that you have such a strong prejudice that no scientific argument will change it.
nathanntan
5 months ago
Your tone clearly shows you have no interest in hearing anything but your thoughts, so this will be my last time interacting with you. Have a good day.
vivarism
5 months ago
you are so deep in your cult, i seriously pity you. i have been exactly where you are and for your sake (and the sake of everyone you drag down with you) i hope you will stop ignoring the truth right in front of you
chugging along, 4/5ths done. again please read at your discretion, the story always gets worse before it gets better, but writing it out is healing me for sure. thank you everyone for your compassion
"First of all, climate change isn't real. Secondly, this person is abusing you." ๐ญ I know your brother's horrible, but this was...bizarre in two different ways. Anyway, I'm so glad you got away from him and built a better life for yourself. I wish you a lot of happiness and better health in the future.
Haha it's alright if you laughed, I try to inject some humour where I can. Thank you for taking the time to read it and encourage me. I'm wishing the best to you too <3