I think these are all referencing a same study that may be being wildly misconstrued for engagement. I think that's sort of psychotic to hold that outlook and haven't really met anyone who does tbh.
I recommend reading the study directly. The interpretation by the pop psych publications you linked to is, to put it as nicely as possible, deeply inaccurate. In reality the correct identification of the emotions, and with that empathy with their partner, increases relationship satisfaction: https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/fam-26-2-236.pdf
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Men and women are so different and despite all we end up together. It's beautiful.
I think these are all referencing a same study that may be being wildly misconstrued for engagement. I think that's sort of psychotic to hold that outlook and haven't really met anyone who does tbh.
I recommend reading the study directly. The interpretation by the pop psych publications you linked to is, to put it as nicely as possible, deeply inaccurate. In reality the correct identification of the emotions, and with that empathy with their partner, increases relationship satisfaction: https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/fam-26-2-236.pdf
Whew. Thank you, chills. I needed that.