/cosigned - as a parent myself, with my own parent who did her best but a lot of that was not so good and without a dad, I vowed to break the chain and managed to raise a couple really good kids. It's possible to be there for kids and raise them well, if one wants. Hope, as mentioned, you have a support network - therapy or otherwise - to work thru your S T U F F .
its good they left huh
yeah it is but like…. I feel mean? I guess I just wanted to help people change and get better, but they couldn’t.
just dont think about it. its all in the past
sometimes the actions of others cant be fixed or helped by just one person in an instant. i dont think you should take their burdens and make them your own. (but i see where you're coming from)
alright. thanks guys
No, Roxelle left bc of nothing but her own actions and you cannot fix anyone. You couldn’t have changed her even if you were a bit “nicer”, and sometimes using a harsher tone is necessary, and esp necessary here because of her severely odd behavior. You did nothing wrong, do not worry at all
Basically what egod said!! I'm currently thinking the same thing about my abusers right now, but the truth is... Their actions are on them, not you!! What you're doing is not your fault!!
youre only 13 and she was a predator. its not your fault, i promise. she left because she was being held accountable. im glad the roxellle account is down, but im way more glad cakie left. fuck her, i hope whatever shes up to now shes rotting