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ophanimkei zipfian-distribution

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Hi! Letting you know I readded you to the webring ^w^ You might have to clear your cache to see the arrows! I hope you have a nice day today!

zipfian-distribution 1 year ago

Thanks so much! Have a great day as well

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inkcaps updated ❀ F A I R Y L A N D ❀

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inkcaps 2 years ago

Late night rambling! Let me know if you can connect with any of this, I'd love to talk about it!! <3

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inkcaps 2 years ago

OH and I changed the background of this month's diary! I like the light twinkling effect ; __ ;

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michaelmas 2 years ago

I think it's very natural that you'd want there to be little discrepancy between how you perceive yourself & how others perceive you & you shouldn't think too hard about it. I normally feel the opposite of the feeling you've described & feel as though I'm in a perpetual state of change.

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inkcaps 2 years ago

@vashti I agree on both accounts tbh!! It's something I should let go and not feel I have to justify to others. It's something I've been trying to unlearn, but for a whole time I lived like I had something to prove and I can fall into those patterns sometimes. The last few years I feel like I've changed a lot to, but mostly for better. It's fascinating to watch yourself grow over time, just like everything else does!

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michaelmas 2 years ago

I think rather than seeing it as some sort of justification, you should frame it as authenticity; You're wanting to be authentic & true & there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it's commendable & shows that you have self confidence.

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ophanimkei 2 years ago

I feel really similarly. I often want people to know the truest version of myself, but I let the worst parts of myself out due to mental illness or sleep deprivation or some other silly thing. And then I feel like I have to work really hard to let people know the "truest" version of myself again even if the part of myself I displayed is technically me too.

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ophanimkei 2 years ago

It's very obvious with family and friends I've known for years. My tastes and interests and personality evolved quite a bit within the last two years, and as a result, I get a lot of recommendations for things I would've liked as a teenager that I've outgrown now.

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inkcaps 2 years ago

@vashti, you are very kind and I appreciate your thoughtful insight. This is a beautiful way to reframe and you're right! At its core it's all about wanting to express the most authentic version of yourself, huh? Thank you, I will keep this in mind!! ♡♡

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vivarism 2 years ago

Are you perhaps worried that others won't accept your changes? Like someone might say, "oh no, I liked the old version better!" Do you need reassurance that, no matter how your beliefs evolve, you can still be loved for the Essence of Sarah at your core? You dont have to answer here and maybe I'm totally off the mark. Just something to think about.

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inkcaps 2 years ago

@ophanimkei the shift from your teen years into emerging adulthood can especially be rife with change imo. It's a big time for exploring your identity and since others aren't privy to your internal world, they still have that particular impression of you. It can be hard!!

inkcaps 2 years ago

@ophanimkei it can be hard feeling like you're being authentic when burdened with things like mental illness and sleep deprivation too... it's easier said than done, but I think it's important to be forgiving of yourself for the times you've been hurting ♡

inkcaps 2 years ago

@vivarism hmm, this is interesting food for thought, I appreciate your questions!! That might be a part of it, and I have felt that fear of rejection in the past, but I think in this example it's like the fear of being perceived as flakey lest I "justify" myself?

allyratworld updated AllyRat World

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crow-queen updated Crow Queen - Home

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4disease ophanimkei

2 years ago

Helloooooo... It took me a little while but I fixed the RPGmaker webring button on my front page, could i be re-added to it? Thank you so much :)

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ophanimkei 2 years ago

I've added you :-) !

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inkcaps updated ❀ F A I R Y L A N D ❀

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inkcaps 2 years ago

Little updates!

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allyratworld updated AllyRat World

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thepasteldyke 2 years ago

Gakuen Alice omg i remember that being one of the manga that ran in the short-lived swedish manga magazine shojo stars. Nostalgia.

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ophanimkei updated hello purveyors of heaven

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ophanimkei updated hello purveyors of heaven

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crow-queen updated Crow Queen - Home

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crow-queen 2 years ago

Some updates to journal to prepare for new year :)

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inkcaps 2 years ago

Lovely as always! ;u; ♡♡

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thebookring inkcaps

2 years ago

You have such a cute website!! I love everything about it! <3 I noticed you have a cute book section as well! I'd love to extend an invite to you to join The Book Ring if it's something you'd be interested in. :) It's a webring and directory for anyone with book-related content on their sites so fellow readers can find each other and make new friends. ^^ Hope to see you! Keep up the amazing work on your site ♥

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inkcaps 2 years ago

Hi, thank you for reaching out to me about this, you're very kind! I'll keep you posted about whether I decide to join or not if that's okay! ♡

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thebookring 2 years ago

For sure! :) Happy Holidays! ♥

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allyratworld updated AllyRat World

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thepasteldyke 2 years ago

I have that Sonico figure, she's so cute<3

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allyratworld 2 years ago

Ahh so lucky! She's so sweet and perfect

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allyratworld updated AllyRat World

2 years ago

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inkcaps

2 years ago

I made a page for the Bookbug! This is a digital book club hosted here on Neocities. Members read the club's monthly book and then share their thoughts about it. Check it out here!! https://bookbug.neocities.org/#one Anddd here's a link to my particular page!! :D https://inkcaps.neocities.org/library/bookbug/

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inkcaps bookbug

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Hi! I created my page for the book club! If there's anything else you need me to do then please let me know! :D <3 https://inkcaps.neocities.org/library/bookbug/

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michaelmas 2 years ago

It's soooo beautiful! I added you to the members page :-)

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inkcaps 2 years ago

Ahhhh thank you Vashti, I'm so happy you like it, and thank YOU and Maple for organizing this as well! I can't wait to get reading! ;u;

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michaelmas 2 years ago

Omg & I noticed the custom favicon for that page, what a thoughtful touch!

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michaelmas 2 years ago

The book is really good so far; I'm about 150 pages in. I hope you enjoy it too

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inkcaps 2 years ago

@vashti Favicons really help to tie things together, I like to add them when I remember! ;u; But yay that's good to hear! I've heard great things about Crime and Punishment and that it's a page turner, so this will be fun!!

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