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murid
1 year ago
As we say in Asia, marriage isn't between individuals. You marry the entire family.
saint-images
1 year ago
Curious how despite the both of us being Slavic (although from very distantly related groups), in Russia a "traditional" 21st century wedding is mostly all about the bride: the guests, the decor, the theme, everything is decided by her with some tips from the family. The thing that happened on your sister's friend's wedding would weird out both the "traditional" and the "progressive" alike here.
sussuri
1 year ago
it made me think about one of my cousins who had one of these pompous "traditional" weddings back in the late 00s and it was all about her husband's family and friends. they both married in a registrar and in a church which was really stupid as 10 years later they separated because he was fucking horrible towards her
sussuri
1 year ago
catholic marriage is a hell, as getting a divorce, well getting it anulled is tedious process to go through. i have someone going through it and it's a nightmare, even after having strong evidence in canonical court and being separated for years already
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
@22yk01 so true, i have no idea how people manage to do a 180 that fast, and i cant help but wonder if theyre happy or just doing it because "it's the natural thing to do at my age" etc
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
@murid yea true, but you know registrars office marriage are not at all uncommon here despite the country being catholic, yet it feels like younger gens are starting to fall into the tradcath blackhole because of our general rise of ultra nationalism etc. i feel like it all kind of stems from that. my friend told me there were some literal sieg hiel tier moments at that other wedding i mentioned. forgot to say that
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
@saint-images you know i thought that's how it was here as well, but i guess i was wrong lmao. often the groom will be too shy to go against his families wishes so they end up dominating. and its always the more conservative side that wins funnily enough
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
@sussuri yes in the case of divorce it's such a pain in the ass!! and like, why bother, why risk?
nekonokuni
1 year ago
It's common to priests call a bride a broodmare in your country? LOL wth, I didn't went to many weddings in my life but I know that this is offensive (at least in my country).
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
It totally depends on the priest and what they decide to say, but this one said something along the lines of "now that you joined in this union you must fulfill your wifely duties and make children and guard the home" etc. it sounds more uh.. raw in my language haha
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
When I was getting married in the registrar's office the lady marrying us read an extremely nice text that was completely based on equality, partnership and mutual respect - I honestly thought that church weddings werent much different.
cabbagesorter
1 year ago
Oh and one last thing, young couples have to attend "sex education" church classes before getting married on which they just throw church propaganda at you lmao. It's really demeaning
moonie
1 year ago
!! Reading things like this, I am glad that I am an assertive woman and my husband respects and loves me for it. My mother in law tried to take control of our very non-traditional wedding and I told her to back off, if she wanted to have another wedding, she could get re-married herself. She made some rude comment to my husband (her son, who she disrespects all the time) about us eventually getting divorced...
moonie
1 year ago
Either way, things are still tense between my MIL and I to this day since I have no respect for her, but guess what? My husband and I have been happily married for 9 years now! AND I got the wedding I wanted lol
thelesserword
1 year ago
This doesn't count as work Sunday. Okay, found a new song online. Artificial Intelligence has gone a bit far this time, but I suppose the lyrics could be relatable to some. Presenting... Rodney Munch - It's Time to Take a Sh*t on the Company's Dime.
thelesserword
1 year ago
Shoot, I hope this doesn't affect my job prospects. Employer please, don't ban me from the bathroom. We wouldn't want a repeat of preschool. Okay, that's enough. You all have a good night.
thelesserword
1 year ago
And... shoot, with all these bannings going on, I better send an email to Kyle to make sure I'm not doing anything illegal. Is it legal to host copyrighted songs on your site? Also, Neocities "drama," if anyone has beef with me, please email me privately. Kyle doesn't send warnings on the ban hammer, so just let me know if I'm doing something wrong and I'll fix it.
cheruehai
1 year ago
yay, another shim chong fan! the layout of your site is so cute, and i love your persona :)
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TLDR: Hugo can automate cropping + compression for thumbnails, but it makes the file names pretty long. Neocities apparently will not allow you to upload a file if its file name is over ~95 characters long, and this error will break the Github Action for Neocities deployment. Fixing this was an odyssey, but I feel like this is actually pretty important information that should be noted somewhere.
i know just the place to write this down...
according to the code the file name limit is 100 characters, and there's a 1200 character limit for the file path
@suboptimalism That's interesting. One of the files that threw an error was images/gallery/tatsu final 2_hu238f7a014c725591b5f8da415cee4242_533829_0x420_resize_q75_h2_box_3.webp, which by my count should only be 99 characters (not including the file path), but I wonder if spaces or something count differently? Also, it was very unhappy with some of my code images even after shortening the file names, and I had to--
--change the file path so they were not so deeply nested. I am not sure if my files were just hexed or if there's something janky in the source code, but it rejected my 79 character file name (with file path it was 114) until I shortened the file path to cut the whole thing down to 92 characters.
it looks to me in the code like there might be a bug where "filename.length" is checked against both limits (so the effective max is 100). if filename.length is actually the full path, then that would mean even for the path there's a 100 char limit
well, looks like somebody already pointed this issue out a few months ago... https://github.com/neocities/neocities/issues/498
@suboptimalism No way! Good find. Gonna comment in that thread. Although given what it took to get the block function revisions, I am not optimistic for a timely fix...
could it be that the space is encoded as %20 so it’s actually three characters?
Theme looks beautiful!