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3 years ago

i'm risking it all fam. here's a summary of the dreamie (tumor, strawbabie) drama: https://neocities-users.dreamwidth.org/1289.html

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

if i missed something or got something wrong please lmk, but hopefully this is comprehensive enough to a) show dreamie was scummy b) help folks recognize scummy beings often have similar behavior patterns and c) be an easy link for the next time someone asks what happened

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heckmaster 3 years ago

Unfortunately, it's a lot of things- Dreamie accused us (as in, our system) of telling her to off herself in a server were nobody did such a thing AFAIK.

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heckmaster 3 years ago

All this to say, I sure don't blame you if you missed something lol

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i'm so sorry dreamie smeared you all like that ):

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loves1ck 3 years ago

thanks for the writeup! was an..interesting read. i considered following tumor before, but i saw them vagueposting about the oldweb/blocking thing and was instantly turned off bc it was just extremely aggressive and weird to me lol

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heckmaster 3 years ago

It's okay, we're not afraid of her and TBH our experience is but a drop in an ocean- we're mostly worried about the way she engaged with minors and how manipulative she was towards them.

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i also considered following tumor until i looked at it's bio and had that "...waiminnit" moment lol. you dodged a bullet and i'm glad for that. "aggressive and weird" is a good description

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bechnokid 3 years ago

thank you so much for speaking your piece on this. i had to leave her webring bc she was telling doko to off themselves while claiming that "it's her job to protect minors" and after giving my reason, she was like "lol ok have fun supporting pedophiles!" it wasn't fun. :\

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i'm glad you're not afraid! i agree though, it looks like coddling up to minors to basically use them as pawns is part of it's usual modus operandi and it's disconcerting

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

oh dear. i was one of the ppl it vagued about when it was talking about "removing ppl for engaging with lolcows." oh lord, i'm so sorry to hear dreamie was harassing you as well. ugh i can't stand the p word being thrown around so casually and reasonable ppl like you being treated so badly

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bechnokid 3 years ago

*it, apologies for using she/her pronouns. i saw those pronouns mentioned in its bio, so i thought it'd be ok,,,

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

since i'm not dreamie i can't speak for how it would take being referred to as she (i don't mean this in a catty or sarcastic way) but i know for the longest time it used she as well. technically i'm incorrect with it but after hours of it i'm on autopilot ;w;

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

afaik the current correct pronouns for dreamie would be rot, and bc dreamie had so many pronouns and switched them so frequently i don't think anybody here was purposefully trying to misgender. we a little confused but frankly look at the material we were referencing

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mental-labour 3 years ago

nice

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i forgot to say before, but if you want your experience removed i'd understand, or on the flipside if you wanted to be named for the sake of your hurt being acknowledged i'd also understand and can edit the post accordingly

nandoesherbest 3 years ago

👏👏 thank you for your service. tbh I had no idea about this manipulating minors thing, have been too short here to be aware of everything. for me it's the most vile thing it dreamie has done. i agree that faking minority status & weaponizing it is absolutely low, but srsly, it sounds like borderline grooming behaviour. hopefully dreamie will stay gone or at least won't get as much attention as used to before

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nandoesherbest 3 years ago

and for minors here, please, stay alert around weird adults online, no matter how cool they may be at first sight. they're not your friends, don't confide in them, because they can turn out to be manipulative or outright abusive towards you

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comfort 3 years ago

thank you for the write up on everything!!

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

oh no, it's absolutely grooming behavior. then dreamie would turn around and accuse others of the grooming. dreamie chill out and get a life challenge. for the kiddos, adults can be kind and even friendly, but something is probably wrong if they're saying they're the only one you can trust and others are evil and etc. watch for red flags

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sugarangel

3 years ago

won't you come and ride with the elevator man? (YEEEEEEEAH!)

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sugarangel

3 years ago

why is there so much mf drama on here its a coding site

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psychonauts 3 years ago

I KNOW??? girlypop we r in a niche community sit the hell down ❗❗❗

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pklucky 3 years ago

i ask myself this question whenever i see drama here

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sugarangel 3 years ago

fr tho?? like got damn just code ur silly site

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purinland 3 years ago

feel like it all mostly started after dreamie came here..

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antikrist updated AntiKrist

3 years ago

AntiKrist

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gnomes 3 years ago

i don't think i'll ever stopped being floored by your website's design, absolutely beautiful (-=!!

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psychonauts sugarangel

3 years ago

i just responded to yr email!!

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sugarangel 3 years ago

tyyy!

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sugarangel

3 years ago

NEOCITIES FIX UR COMMENTS

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strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

this is a serious question. should i make an actual page summarizing the dreamie thing so ppl can be aware? i know everyone's sick of the drama at this point, and even discussion of it, hence a "here's a link don't talk about it" idea. but toxic folks like dreamie usually come back and ppl recognizing it i think would be helpful bc it bogged down nc as a whole :Ia

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

this also wouldn't be a popcorn.gif for funsies dramafest, like a legit "here's what happened, it sucked, if dreamie returns let's ignore it" sorta deal

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pomelo 3 years ago

ngl im kinda curious.

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allyratworld 3 years ago

Honestly it might be good to if nothing else teach kids using neocities to stop blindly following every weird adult they see online.

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

that's a really good point. in my research on the situation (past what i personally witnessed) it turns out dreamie had an almost modus operandie of befriending minors then playing on their sympathies to have them defend it

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

this is taking longer to write than i thought it would bc there is even more to sort and process here than i was initially aware of and i'm struggling to lay down the facts without it being too callout post-y

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

also struggling to not give any Opinions lmao

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

https://neocities-users.dreamwidth.org/1289.html

sugarangel

3 years ago

anywayz copying chipsfunfun rn (/hj hi chippy) what mane 6 character am i most like

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psychonauts 3 years ago

FLUTTERSHY i think

sugarangel 3 years ago

yippee!!!

sugarangel

3 years ago

im sorry for being so negative abt the situation but im pretty upset, im going to be honest. i dont wanna sound dramatic or anythin g but i rlly saw strawbabie as someone i looked up to, and im just pissed rn.

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sugarangel 3 years ago

for now i think im just gonna ignore most drama that happens bc most of it isnt my business but im very. kind of hurt

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sugarangel 3 years ago

im so fucking angry right now actually lolzies

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strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

i guess u could say... tumor was a cancer that needed to be excised BI

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arandomsite 3 years ago

what is this tumor yall r talking abt

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

that one got super passive aggressive with me, had at least four websites i can think off the top of my head, was found to be liar several times, and couldn't go ANYWHERE without any drama, frankly abused the timeline feature... i usually only post about coding/web dev but honestly i genuinely think this subject is relevant and that it's good for the nc community as a whole that lullabye/starbit/strawbabie/tumor left

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

@random a very toxic user notorious for drama

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nandoesherbest 3 years ago

i was hoping someone'd make this joke, srsly

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

sorry to be a hater fam but i am personally popping bottles lol

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sugarangel

3 years ago

can anyone explain to me what happened w/ tumor/strawbabie? im sorry if this is invading anyones personal stuff but im very confused.

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purinland 3 years ago

same

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hellokittygirl 3 years ago

ok so basically she was apparently xenophobic 2 slavs on discord, faked her race (shes actually white), n harasses ppl over tiny things (like how she tells ppl 2 kill themselves after disagreements/things that can b resolved privately) n manipulated evry1 2 believe she was the innocent one bein harrased n stalked

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purinland 3 years ago

^^ ive literally always had a weird feeling ab them and tbh i was scared to even unfollow them 💀 i quickly left their webring in the kindest way ever then unfollowed them 🏃‍♀️

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sugarangel 3 years ago

jesus christ thats. really fucking infuriating thanks for letting me know

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chipsfunfun 3 years ago

I don’t understand anything right now.

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chipsfunfun 3 years ago

I am confused and feel lied too? I don’t even know.

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supernxva 3 years ago

wtf... huh? like,,,,,, what? ummm wtf wtf wtf

sugarangel updated sugarangel :3

3 years ago

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sugarangel

3 years ago

im a bit disappointed. i rlly looked up 2 dreamie man

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chipsfunfun 3 years ago

what happened I need explanations

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chipsfunfun 3 years ago

who is in the wrong? who is in the right? is anyone in the right? is anyone in the wrong???

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sugarangel 3 years ago

i dont even know what happened, i heard that she was xenophobic. i dont rlly look at lolcow so i have no idea. im just a little upset

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lostletters pixelglade

3 years ago

I loved your pixel artwork and collection of vegan recipes. I'm also vegan, but I have hardly explored all the different types of lentils you mentioned. Thanks for all these great recipes--I'm excited to try them.

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pixelglade 3 years ago

Oh, a fellow vegan! :) Thank you so much! I hope you find a recipe you like. And I'm happy you like artwork.

lostletters spiritcellar

3 years ago

The design of all your realms are awesome. As a TTRPG fan, the wizard's study is my favorite. I recently got into Dragon Cave, but four of my dragon eggs died because they didn't mature fast enough T__T Your collection is amazing! Also loved all the vegan recipes you shared. I'm a big fan of Rabbit & Wolves & WoonHeng's recipes too.

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spiritcellar 2 years ago

I'm so sorry about your Dragons!! If it wasn't for https://www.allureofnds.net/daycare all of mine would have met the same fate... This "daycare" lets you upload your dragons for others using the site to click and view, I'd really recommend checking it out if you're still interested in Dragon Cave. Thank you so much for all the kind words by the way, it really means a lot! ♡

internetbee

3 years ago

ahee he he hehehe heh i have a blue checkmark here :~) cool beans

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internetbee updated Internet Bee

3 years ago

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strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

hung up on a toybox bc idk how to organize it lmao

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antikrist updated AntiKrist

3 years ago

icons.html

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divergentrays antikrist

3 years ago

Christmas section is looking great and I heartily approve the cocktails section!

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antikrist 3 years ago

thanks so much!! constantly finding and saving more recipes to post :3

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