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teethinvitro 3 years ago

So lovely and wonderfully made

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strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

i'm risking it all fam. here's a summary of the dreamie (tumor, strawbabie) drama: https://neocities-users.dreamwidth.org/1289.html

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

if i missed something or got something wrong please lmk, but hopefully this is comprehensive enough to a) show dreamie was scummy b) help folks recognize scummy beings often have similar behavior patterns and c) be an easy link for the next time someone asks what happened

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heckmaster 3 years ago

Unfortunately, it's a lot of things- Dreamie accused us (as in, our system) of telling her to off herself in a server were nobody did such a thing AFAIK.

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heckmaster 3 years ago

All this to say, I sure don't blame you if you missed something lol

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i'm so sorry dreamie smeared you all like that ):

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loves1ck 3 years ago

thanks for the writeup! was an..interesting read. i considered following tumor before, but i saw them vagueposting about the oldweb/blocking thing and was instantly turned off bc it was just extremely aggressive and weird to me lol

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heckmaster 3 years ago

It's okay, we're not afraid of her and TBH our experience is but a drop in an ocean- we're mostly worried about the way she engaged with minors and how manipulative she was towards them.

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i also considered following tumor until i looked at it's bio and had that "...waiminnit" moment lol. you dodged a bullet and i'm glad for that. "aggressive and weird" is a good description

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bechnokid 3 years ago

thank you so much for speaking your piece on this. i had to leave her webring bc she was telling doko to off themselves while claiming that "it's her job to protect minors" and after giving my reason, she was like "lol ok have fun supporting pedophiles!" it wasn't fun. :\

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i'm glad you're not afraid! i agree though, it looks like coddling up to minors to basically use them as pawns is part of it's usual modus operandi and it's disconcerting

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

oh dear. i was one of the ppl it vagued about when it was talking about "removing ppl for engaging with lolcows." oh lord, i'm so sorry to hear dreamie was harassing you as well. ugh i can't stand the p word being thrown around so casually and reasonable ppl like you being treated so badly

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bechnokid 3 years ago

*it, apologies for using she/her pronouns. i saw those pronouns mentioned in its bio, so i thought it'd be ok,,,

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

since i'm not dreamie i can't speak for how it would take being referred to as she (i don't mean this in a catty or sarcastic way) but i know for the longest time it used she as well. technically i'm incorrect with it but after hours of it i'm on autopilot ;w;

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

afaik the current correct pronouns for dreamie would be rot, and bc dreamie had so many pronouns and switched them so frequently i don't think anybody here was purposefully trying to misgender. we a little confused but frankly look at the material we were referencing

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mental-labour 3 years ago

nice

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

i forgot to say before, but if you want your experience removed i'd understand, or on the flipside if you wanted to be named for the sake of your hurt being acknowledged i'd also understand and can edit the post accordingly

nandoesherbest 3 years ago

👏👏 thank you for your service. tbh I had no idea about this manipulating minors thing, have been too short here to be aware of everything. for me it's the most vile thing it dreamie has done. i agree that faking minority status & weaponizing it is absolutely low, but srsly, it sounds like borderline grooming behaviour. hopefully dreamie will stay gone or at least won't get as much attention as used to before

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nandoesherbest 3 years ago

and for minors here, please, stay alert around weird adults online, no matter how cool they may be at first sight. they're not your friends, don't confide in them, because they can turn out to be manipulative or outright abusive towards you

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comfort 3 years ago

thank you for the write up on everything!!

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

oh no, it's absolutely grooming behavior. then dreamie would turn around and accuse others of the grooming. dreamie chill out and get a life challenge. for the kiddos, adults can be kind and even friendly, but something is probably wrong if they're saying they're the only one you can trust and others are evil and etc. watch for red flags

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zoneoverimagination jellyworld

3 years ago

Hi, I saw in the claim a jelly page that the website that bonded with the strawberry trifle doesn't exist anymore, so can I claim this jelly?

sillykitty136 3 years ago

I believe it's my jelly acutally, I don't remember if i mentioned that I've changed my domain name to jellyworld so that's a mistake on my end. My apologies!

strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

this is a serious question. should i make an actual page summarizing the dreamie thing so ppl can be aware? i know everyone's sick of the drama at this point, and even discussion of it, hence a "here's a link don't talk about it" idea. but toxic folks like dreamie usually come back and ppl recognizing it i think would be helpful bc it bogged down nc as a whole :Ia

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

this also wouldn't be a popcorn.gif for funsies dramafest, like a legit "here's what happened, it sucked, if dreamie returns let's ignore it" sorta deal

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pomelo 3 years ago

ngl im kinda curious.

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allyratworld 3 years ago

Honestly it might be good to if nothing else teach kids using neocities to stop blindly following every weird adult they see online.

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

that's a really good point. in my research on the situation (past what i personally witnessed) it turns out dreamie had an almost modus operandie of befriending minors then playing on their sympathies to have them defend it

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

this is taking longer to write than i thought it would bc there is even more to sort and process here than i was initially aware of and i'm struggling to lay down the facts without it being too callout post-y

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

also struggling to not give any Opinions lmao

strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

https://neocities-users.dreamwidth.org/1289.html

retasu

3 years ago

Version 2 of my website collective is now up and running! (www.cloud-illusions.net) I will eventually migrate my fansites over there but will keep everything else the same on this end! Hoping to revamp retasu soon ( ´ ∀ `)ノ～ ♡

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aliceinavocadoland updated welcome to alice in avocadoland

3 years ago

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strawberry-gashes

3 years ago

i guess u could say... tumor was a cancer that needed to be excised BI

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arandomsite 3 years ago

what is this tumor yall r talking abt

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

that one got super passive aggressive with me, had at least four websites i can think off the top of my head, was found to be liar several times, and couldn't go ANYWHERE without any drama, frankly abused the timeline feature... i usually only post about coding/web dev but honestly i genuinely think this subject is relevant and that it's good for the nc community as a whole that lullabye/starbit/strawbabie/tumor left

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

@random a very toxic user notorious for drama

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nandoesherbest 3 years ago

i was hoping someone'd make this joke, srsly

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strawberry-gashes 3 years ago

sorry to be a hater fam but i am personally popping bottles lol

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deafeningcreationearthquake updated Edan's Website

3 years ago