Neocities

vickkuma

10 months ago

i was told im not allowed to blow bubbles bcs im a senior in hs 😭🥲

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drizzle 10 months ago

tell them they're not allowed to walk without a walking stick because theyre clearly too grown 😓

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oceanfront 10 months ago

the walking stick made me ijbolllll helppp mee😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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vickkuma 10 months ago

BYEEEEEEEEE

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vivarism updated 🧃🧸🎈🌞 Vivarism 🌞🧸🎈🧃

10 months ago

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🧃🧸🎈🌞 Vivarism 🌞🧸🎈🧃

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vivarism 10 months ago

"I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my femaleness and my femininity. And I want to be respected in all of my femaleness because I deserve to be." — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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vivarism 10 months ago

Also THANK YOU to everyone who comments on, interacts with, or even just silently reads my updates... I have been too shy to reply 🥺💕 It's my aim to get back on NC soon-- assuming this blogpost doesn't obliterate the small web lol

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birdwrongs 10 months ago

If I may say this gently—I'm glad you found a way to be you that you're happy with! But not everyone has the same experiences; so many of my friends are genuinely happier having transitioned to the gender they identify with. Less depressed, more able to engage with the world, more comfortable expressing themselves.

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birdwrongs 10 months ago

You mention that it's not bad that you developed early, it's bad that boys and men harassed you over it—and the reason why trans depression and suicide rates are so high is often because of the way that society treats trans people. I think those experiences could be ones to connect over, rather than a reason to dismiss other people's experiences of gender. Just food for thought.

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vivarism 10 months ago

Dear Birdwrongs, thank you for your gentleness. But I must point out that you can enjoy all the gender nonconformity of a trans identity without believing and spreading misogynistic lies. If those friends of yours are "happier" espousing a cultlike ideology, I'd guess they're ignorant or in denial about sexism, or perhaps one of the rare Evil Women who gets off on misogyny and child abuse

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vivarism 10 months ago

Bcus that's what the trans community promotes. Once you see it, you cannot UNsee it, and that's why I keep talking about it. Maybe I didn't talk about it ENOUGH, honestly... Basically: Drop the T, just be GNC! There is nothing inferior or incorrect about being female

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birdwrongs 10 months ago

my friends are quite aware of sexism, in fact! none of them made their decisions about their gender based on stereotypes—I know femme trans men and butch trans women and plenty of others with unique relationships to gender. and, well—they all so frequently disagree on things that it's hard to think of them as a cult, ha ha.

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birdwrongs 10 months ago

As a cis lesbian fully happy with where I am genderwise, I've found a lot of solidarity and kinship with trans people. Of course, I don't know the people you've met, but you haven't met my friends, either, and those are some big assumptions.

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birdwrongs 10 months ago

It's perfectly possible to care for the rights and wellness of women while not being one or not having been born one, and seeing that in the people I know gives me hope for the world and for the way things could be. I hope you can see that hope in people, too, even if they don't relate to gender the way you do.

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cabbagesorter 10 months ago

I've been inactive lately because life got in the way and im extremely exhausted but ill always stand by you flonne, this was beautifully written!!! love u

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vivarism 10 months ago

As usual, I had too much to say to respond with just comments. Let's all be mindful of other's feeds and, if you are also feeling wordy, link a text file or your own blog, or post a new message directly to my profile to start a new comment thread. https://vivarism.net/diary/25/mini.txt

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vaultofsky 10 months ago

Thanks so much for writing this. It's so important; especially sinister is how this movement is advertised to young girls. I also experimented with being NB, in retrospect I wanted to feel stronger and be released from social expectation. Realized pretending that I wasn't a girl didn't change anything and I can still be as masc as I want otherwise. I'm just glad I didn't go on T like my friends, who now regret it.

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kalachuchi updated site name or something

10 months ago

site name or something

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kalachuchi

10 months ago

yay 140 !! currently working on updating my writings page (adding some stuff finally??) and index hihi

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raspien updated welcome raspergine !

10 months ago

home.html

me.html

raspien

10 months ago

nvm i was sick. . .. im back now hiii

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miniwildpanda updated my webshite!! X3

10 months ago

writinnn.html

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powertqueen updated Power's Website

10 months ago

blumchen

10 months ago

Sorry for not updating yet, I have been dealing with problems like illness and depression and it is hard to get the motivation to work on this. I'm trying to push through and get the next update out. I will go into more details in my next blog post. I just hope all you are well <3

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maphren 10 months ago

don't say sorry, we're grateful for ur site regardless of when it gets updated :) best of luck, stay strong and put ur own health and happiness above all 💪 <3

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rokawoo updated Rokaspace

10 months ago

Rokaspace

hellokittyminigun updated my typewriter of time ₊˚⊹♡

10 months ago

quiz/mojib-ribbon-quiz.html

shrines/V3_osorezan.html

shrines/ristar.html

V3/index.html

V3/shrines.html

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goooby 10 months ago

i love your ristar shrine its so cute

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hellokittyminigun 10 months ago

@goooby ty!!

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parasite 10 months ago

i got mojikko! maybe i should make a page on my site for quiz results... i need to read over the other shrines more when i have time, i only glanced at them when i was first going through the site

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