Neocities

grauline updated the sound of a fingernail scraping against ...

2 years ago

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grauline 2 years ago

the last of my death and floral scents -- "queen of moths" and "full of fire and stars and all of october" -- are up ! my collection is now fully up to date, and i have a new favorite house for SURE :~)

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troy-sucks

2 years ago

ANYways besides that lets get back to regular scheduled levels of neocity. honestly i agree with arandomsite and the trick is to learn, but literally not care. cus its just words on a screen dawg, don't get mad or sad because you just gotta be yourself and have fun :)))

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weirdwaves updated Weird Waves

2 years ago

Weird Waves

cpt-buttbeard updated Captain Buttbeard's Corner

2 years ago

Captain Buttbeard's Corner

troy-sucks

2 years ago

erm scratches head. im sorry for being mean to people just because tumor (aka the really bad person who got outed as a horrible person) also didnt like them. i feel really bad cuz im jyst like this really impressionable teen and ya i want to aplogize to the people that i harassed. im proabbly not gonna trust an adult on neocities again for a while (but that doesnt mean that u guys arent cool) and ermm im gonna 1/2

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troy-sucks 2 years ago

try to enjoy being a teen. ive only got 4 years left to be a kid. i should not be partaking in dumbass drama on the interwebs. i love coding. i love it a lot. i dont want to fuel drama. tumor really fcked me up and im sorry for that. can someone pls tell dokodemo tht im sorry. thank u (2/2)

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gnomes updated GNOMEWATCH

2 years ago

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mountainview updated Mountain Weather

2 years ago

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Mountain Weather

strawberry-gashes

2 years ago

i'm risking it all fam. here's a summary of the dreamie (tumor, strawbabie) drama: https://neocities-users.dreamwidth.org/1289.html

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

if i missed something or got something wrong please lmk, but hopefully this is comprehensive enough to a) show dreamie was scummy b) help folks recognize scummy beings often have similar behavior patterns and c) be an easy link for the next time someone asks what happened

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heckmaster 2 years ago

Unfortunately, it's a lot of things- Dreamie accused us (as in, our system) of telling her to off herself in a server were nobody did such a thing AFAIK.

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heckmaster 2 years ago

All this to say, I sure don't blame you if you missed something lol

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

i'm so sorry dreamie smeared you all like that ):

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loves1ck 2 years ago

thanks for the writeup! was an..interesting read. i considered following tumor before, but i saw them vagueposting about the oldweb/blocking thing and was instantly turned off bc it was just extremely aggressive and weird to me lol

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heckmaster 2 years ago

It's okay, we're not afraid of her and TBH our experience is but a drop in an ocean- we're mostly worried about the way she engaged with minors and how manipulative she was towards them.

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

i also considered following tumor until i looked at it's bio and had that "...waiminnit" moment lol. you dodged a bullet and i'm glad for that. "aggressive and weird" is a good description

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bechnokid 2 years ago

thank you so much for speaking your piece on this. i had to leave her webring bc she was telling doko to off themselves while claiming that "it's her job to protect minors" and after giving my reason, she was like "lol ok have fun supporting pedophiles!" it wasn't fun. :\

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

i'm glad you're not afraid! i agree though, it looks like coddling up to minors to basically use them as pawns is part of it's usual modus operandi and it's disconcerting

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

oh dear. i was one of the ppl it vagued about when it was talking about "removing ppl for engaging with lolcows." oh lord, i'm so sorry to hear dreamie was harassing you as well. ugh i can't stand the p word being thrown around so casually and reasonable ppl like you being treated so badly

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bechnokid 2 years ago

*it, apologies for using she/her pronouns. i saw those pronouns mentioned in its bio, so i thought it'd be ok,,,

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

since i'm not dreamie i can't speak for how it would take being referred to as she (i don't mean this in a catty or sarcastic way) but i know for the longest time it used she as well. technically i'm incorrect with it but after hours of it i'm on autopilot ;w;

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

afaik the current correct pronouns for dreamie would be rot, and bc dreamie had so many pronouns and switched them so frequently i don't think anybody here was purposefully trying to misgender. we a little confused but frankly look at the material we were referencing

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mental-labour 2 years ago

nice

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

i forgot to say before, but if you want your experience removed i'd understand, or on the flipside if you wanted to be named for the sake of your hurt being acknowledged i'd also understand and can edit the post accordingly

nandoesherbest 2 years ago

👏👏 thank you for your service. tbh I had no idea about this manipulating minors thing, have been too short here to be aware of everything. for me it's the most vile thing it dreamie has done. i agree that faking minority status & weaponizing it is absolutely low, but srsly, it sounds like borderline grooming behaviour. hopefully dreamie will stay gone or at least won't get as much attention as used to before

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nandoesherbest 2 years ago

and for minors here, please, stay alert around weird adults online, no matter how cool they may be at first sight. they're not your friends, don't confide in them, because they can turn out to be manipulative or outright abusive towards you

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comfort 2 years ago

thank you for the write up on everything!!

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strawberry-gashes 2 years ago

oh no, it's absolutely grooming behavior. then dreamie would turn around and accuse others of the grooming. dreamie chill out and get a life challenge. for the kiddos, adults can be kind and even friendly, but something is probably wrong if they're saying they're the only one you can trust and others are evil and etc. watch for red flags

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pirra updated It's me, Pirra!

2 years ago