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hey I need some advice. my cat wants to cuddle 25 hours a day and I'm having a hard time convincing her that there are only 24 hours and also I need to use some to sleep or work. she said if I really loved her, I'd find a way to bend time. what should I do?

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tehuan

9 months ago

early birthday party last night and i am so sleepy… trying so hard to read. girlfriend is coming over later to record some music n idk if i’m gonna survive tbh

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nohappynonsense k7

9 months ago

so are you still around? or what's the dealio (this is hastiest handiwork btw, there have been many changes since we've last chatted)

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k7 9 months ago

Hey, I'm here. Thanks for asking. I worked on this website while at college and, I won't lie, nearly forgot about it until you wrote. Work keeps me busy and I'm not as much into web tinkering now. That said, my goal with this was to feel more free to put myself out there, and I can say that it worked. I hope you're doing well too, in life and online!

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nohappynonsense 9 months ago

Understandable, and glad that everything has worked out well for ya. Don't let the man grind you down, etc etc.

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net-of-calypso

9 months ago

Going to give little updates and others things in the News tab! Since I'll try and be more active on here too

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net-of-calypso updated .NET of Calypso

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grossgirl94 ziggybeeps

9 months ago

I really liked your post in 2023 called "The digital id" and I lovvvved your shrine for Elder Scrolls! (I also love Elder Scrolls)

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ziggybeeps 9 months ago

Thank you so much! Your zines are killer

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tehuan museariadne

9 months ago

finished a poem response to this week's prompt ^)^ not my best work, but i enjoyed writing it ! https://tehuan.neocities.org/muse

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owlroost 9 months ago

I think it's pretty darn good! And it resonates- it's interesting how places like bus stops make one aware of the passage of time by means of waiting.

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tehuan 9 months ago

thank you sm !! definitely. it feels esp for weird as someone with chronic illness, bc it’s sort of that moment of finally letting myself relax while i wait n all the weird sensations that come with it. lots of sensations and such awareness

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dogblog 9 months ago

very real and relatable

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kph 9 months ago

God, I know that feeling. Brain racing ahead while the body puts down roots, the weird vanishing publicness of it all. Love this!

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9 months ago

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gizurr virtuagirl

9 months ago

wuaaa i love your art and ocs you got a new follower :3c

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virtuagirl 9 months ago

awawa I'm glad you enjoy my work! >ω< thank you very much <3 I love the look and feel of your page, very cozy ~

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9 months ago

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swiftred 9 months ago

A wild blog post appears! in which I tell you why I'm a silly goose

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miela583 9 months ago

Part of my job is customer support over the phone, and I suspect some people expect that if they are talking to someone following the golden rule, it’s their privilege to take advantage of it. Being kind is still important, I think, but I agree with your conclusion here pretty thoroughly.

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iztopher 9 months ago

Ugh, this is such a good post and such a hard lesson to learn, I feel you. My partner and I had to sit down and talk about this because I kept operating under this rule, but the way I wanted to be treated wasn't necessarily the way she did, and vice versa. I hope you can get back some of the kindness you put out into the world, even if it's expressed differently.

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phi1l1y 9 months ago

This is a wonderful entry, one I (and I'm sure countless others) really feel. I was actually talking earlier to a friend about something related; our ways of masking our autism often comes out as extreme politeness, and for me specifically, submissiveness. It is hard for me to identify sometimes that when I laugh at a stranger's joke I don't find funny, or smile and nod my agreement, etc., if that is -

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phi1l1y 9 months ago

- me wanting to be kind and acting out of my heart, or simply the way I feel I must behave. It's certainly a nuanced thing, especially when taking into consideration what you've said about how everyone loves and needs differently. Commencing my yapping now!

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swiftred 9 months ago

It made my day to hear that you both enjoyed and related to my post, and it's nice knowing I'm not the only one <3 thank you for commenting. @iztopher thank you for the well wishes!!

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swiftred 9 months ago

@phi1l1y I honestly think masking is such a bigger part of this than I give credit for. I've been trying to unmask in small ways, like trying not to be overly emotive, or compulsively smile all the time at everyone and, like you said, not laugh at unfunny things, and I realize just how deeply ingrained it is!! You're right that it's hard to separate. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts!

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