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nelscafe updated Nel's Net Cafe!

10 months ago

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aribluejeans

10 months ago

posted a journal on gender, depression, and gift-giving. i don't know if anyone reads my journals but i wouldn't mind some thoughts on the topic/what i wrote about

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sensenotsense 10 months ago

aaa i relate a lot to what you wrote about, but wrote too much for box lol. even tho i like girly things 99% of it i do not care for or my interests have layers to it i might as well buy it myself. like you said i usually look off my wishlist of something i havent bought for myself yet that wouldnt be too weird to ask for. i def feel harder on myself about womenhood since i dont fit into either box.

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sensenotsense 10 months ago

Uh for gift ideas or recs i think someone buying something you both share a common interest in. like if you both like music swapping cds or making a mix cd(maybe of songs you like and songs they like. I also like gifting food/snacks to people either new stuff they might like to try or something hard to get. Like i had a friend get me some buns from a japanese bakery local to them for me when i came over.

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sensenotsense 10 months ago

i dont want to spam your page but if you want to talk more about it lemme know! it was kinda need seeing someone else have the same feelings about gifting. we can swap discords or dm on tumblr or something!

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fh102 10 months ago

i'm pretty set on my gender i believe (i'm just a little guy lol) but i am a chronically bad gift giver, both with actual gifts and just... cards. i remember birthdays through reminders and say happy birthday but i never know what to get someone (even when i know what their interests are!) usually i just default to just money because i'd rather see someone happy with what they truly want!

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fh102 10 months ago

(cont.) i know just giving/getting money can be a bit impersonal but i usually explain to the gift getter that i suck at giving gifts and would rather you show me the cool thing you bought with that money :)

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thegardenofmadeline 10 months ago

Realllly relate to the whole disconnecting from womanhood thing & also wondering if woman actually want whats on those list or if they're just commercialized. I think it's a steady mix of both, but i know it's really frustrating. I had these kind of thoughts who awhile before beginning to identify as agender. Its a lot more peaceful for me to recognize that I can like things without assigning a gender to them

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thegardenofmadeline 10 months ago

When it comes to finding gifts, I tend to start by focusing on my interests, whether that be an activity or some kind of fandom and try to branch out from there. Maybe theres a hobby that you've always wanted to try? For me, sometimes I put off doing things that I hypothetically want because there are obstacles i'm too tired to move by myself

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thegardenofmadeline 10 months ago

aka, something like maybe you want to learn to book bind but you're missing the materials & a tutorial. Maybe thinking about activities/experiences instead of objects will be it easier to think of something!

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aribluejeans 10 months ago

ahhh yes i've identified as nonbinary for maybe 5-6 years now. i guess i just mourn womanhood every year when all these feelings are stirred up. thanks for the advice! i sure do have plenty of hobbies and a hoard of supplies for them but i did end up asking for acrylic paints. i used to be pretty good at painting but i have painted maybe twice since identifying as nonbinary

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aribluejeans 10 months ago

genuinely, thank you all for responding. it really means so much to me <3

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aribluejeans updated Welcome to Ari's Garden!

10 months ago

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aribluejeans 10 months ago

yeah so i started bratz shrines and put several hours into making the buttons to get into them. then i made the base of this page but now i have to play the whole game so i know everything i want on this page LMAO then repeat with Forever Diamondz

sisterdiecutsitsathome updated Sister Diecut Sits At Home

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sisterdiecutsitsathome 10 months ago

updated the homepage & songs of the week, & also added a new page w/ the template for a 'flying nun' (or Sisters of Plenitude) hat! :)

finchbones updated ⦅finchbones⦆

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apples-room updated apples room

10 months ago

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pothos144 updated Pothos144 :D

10 months ago

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sensenotsense updated A little Corner

10 months ago

A little Corner

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sensenotsense 10 months ago

I also picked up Jungkook's solo, but I haven't listened to it yet...I do also plan to pick up Chuu's solo sometime(howl is cute), and Kep1er's that came out a bit ago...Some maybes are Red Velvet, ZB1, and Ateez. I also have Thanksgiving break coming up soon some maybe I'll get around to updating a bit more than just kpop thoughts.

sensenotsense 10 months ago

Oh I also updated some links if we are moots pls lemme know if i missed your button! I also have some crochet projects I need to add, take pics of and just some general housekeeping. I know mirco blogging is frowned upon, but I need reminders for next time I update lol

sensenotsense 10 months ago

lmao one more reminder before i forget again i need to expand the kpop containment zone to all random thoughts for singles and collabs(like the upcoming IVEx(G)I-DLExAespa or new jeans/le sserafin game collabs) and just thoughts on shit going on drama, preorders/merch, tours, different groups, etc. kinda like my game log but for kpop or maybe just music in general too i dunno yet

fh102 aribluejeans

10 months ago

i really like your site! really cool that you used it to find yourself again, super neat! hope everything's going alright in life.

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aribluejeans 10 months ago

thank you so much! I'm doing alright at the moment <3

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apples-room updated apples room

10 months ago

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federiefederi 10 months ago

Hi, cute art! I like your pixel oc too, looks like as if it was from a game... hope to see more of your site soon! ...follow for follow~? it would help a lot!

aribluejeans

10 months ago

added a couple more people's buttons to my links section at the bottom of the home page. not sure if I posted this on here, but I have a button now! you can find it also in the links section.

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aribluejeans updated Welcome to Ari's Garden!

10 months ago

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pothos144 updated Pothos144 :D

10 months ago

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webcatz 10 months ago

blaseball is doing more seasons????

aribluejeans

10 months ago

yayyyy i'm starting to put together collections page! most pages are gonna take a bit longer due to having to photograph my stuff but i've put together a page of sort of affirmations on there

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