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emilynhoward skep

1 day ago

Thank you for the Christmas card! It arrived right on time. :) 🎄

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skep 1 day ago

Dang, I put that in the mail a week ago. Now I'm worried about all the ones I mailed after.

skep 1 day ago

(Just kidding, I'm a pro. My Christmas card recipient list is sorted by distance in descending order)

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nohappynonsense 1 day ago

skep using his stamp collection, i see

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zerock 1 day ago

surely I'll get my card any day now :)

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skep 13 hours ago

If you don't, make sure to call the post office and complain

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

4 days ago

now.html

changelog.html

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emilynhoward 4 days ago

Did something different with my /now page. For those on mobile, you can click into the image and read. And yes, all of it is in alt text.

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smallcypress 4 days ago

I am excited to see your creatives systems work, I am trying to make sense of mine right now too

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skep emilynhoward

3 weeks ago

It occurs to me, I -have- seen custom HTML tags. Zendesk's knowledge base software uses them now; the WYSIWYG editor inserts them to power some of its functionality, but since they're unstyled containers they don't affect the published page.

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emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

I understand about 50% of what you're saying, so I'll take your word for it.

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skep 3 weeks ago

I could explain it in detail with images and code snippets and stuff but I'd need some sort of dedicated web space for that

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emilynhoward

3 weeks ago

Website redesign is now underway. Expect to see it in a few months because I'm slow. The outward result will be simpler, but the code will be more solid, modern, and responsive.

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pixelglade 3 weeks ago

Ooh, exciting. Any hints for how the changes will look?

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skep 3 weeks ago

As per our prior discussions, I am eager to see your take on "frutiger gothic".

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emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

@pixelglade I won't talk about specifics of the layout or colors because all of that might change, but I am looking for something simpler visually than the current layout, where the content feels a little more unbounded and bubbled than the current layout.

emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

@skep I have already desaturated the Windows 2000 desktop and photoshopped some headstones in.

emilynhoward

3 weeks ago

Does anybody use custom HTML tags like in this article? https://matthewjamestaylor.com/custom-tags I am wondering about other people's experience with it.

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skep 3 weeks ago

I don't, but it makes sense to me, I vaguely recall that HTML and XML use a similar methodology and XML is basically nothing but made-up tags.

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skep 3 weeks ago

Biggest caveats I can think of would be to not replace semantic tags (which the article mentioned), and your code could be less intuitive for others to interpret (likely not a huge concern)

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irony-machine 3 weeks ago

i don't use them, they feel wrong to me in a way i can't explain

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emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

@skep, Yeah the advice is not to replace the semantic tags, which I don't want to do. Problem is, even semantic tags like "section" and "article" can get really vague really fast when you're trying to figure out what is where. And since I insist on doing everything by hand I want my code to be more legible.

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emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

@irony-machine The only thing that feel really wrong to me is that you can use emoji (!!!) in them.

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myrtletribe 3 weeks ago

I tried this a while ago with a friend and we were stunned that it worked! but I haven't used them so far

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brachypelmide 3 weeks ago

really late to the party but i've used custom html tags myself and they work just fine. in fact, i've used them against the spec without any problems - before i redesigned my reviews page, each review was literally a element. no hyphen or anything, so they're not necessary, but you do run the risk of creating conflicts with existing semantic tags and potentially ones that could be added in the future.

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brachypelmide 3 weeks ago

ok it turns out neocities doesn't like parsing element-like text. i meant that "each review was literally a [review] element"

emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

3 weeks ago

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changelog.html

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emilynhoward 3 weeks ago

Added 5 more Field Notes.

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

1 month ago

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collections/lists.html

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

I know that everyone was waiting for me to issue a public statement, so here it is: the top 5 national dishes of the United States (and some honorable mentions.)

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pixelglade 1 month ago

Dang I had no idea nachos is american. It's one of my favorite foods (and very easy to make animal-free)

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skep 1 month ago

PB&J had not occurred to me and now I have to reconsider my list.

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

@pixelglade It turns out that I misremembered. Nachos were invented on the Mexican side of the border to cater to the tastes of American restaurant customers. So pretty close. But have you tried the real game-changer: nacho tots???

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rusty-bytes 1 month ago

I love everything about this list- now I want Jet's pizza

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altalenae 1 month ago

loved reading the list!! I had never heard of detroit style pizza (I’m italian lol), might try making it…

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pixelglade 1 month ago

nacho tots - I haven't had it, but I know what tater tots are (in Australia we call them potato gems). Next time I buy some I'll give it a try

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

You call them potato gems???? This is the best thing I have ever heard. This is the best day of my life.

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pixelglade 4 weeks ago

Evidence from a grocery store: https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/96403/birds-eye-potato-gems?cvosrc=affiliate.impactradius.60181

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nohappynonsense 4 weeks ago

"yeah i'm a bit of a rockhound" "oh cool what have you found so far?" "potato gems, mostly"

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emilynhoward skep

1 month ago

Friend, last night I watched the Keira Knightley Pride and Prejudice for the first time right after having re-read the book. This movie insulted my intelligence and I took it very personally. I will not dignify it with a post on my website trying to convince everyone what a piece of crap it is, but you may be someone who understands.

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skep 1 month ago

I... actually like it, for the most part. I remember you saying you thought it was one of Austen's weaker novels for its fairy-tale-ness, so I imagine it doesn't improve things if you have to trim out all the subtleties to fit it into a 2-hour runtime.

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skep 1 month ago

I will agree that the ending scene is really bad. It's so bad. I dread re-watching the movie because I don't want to be subjected to that scene again.

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

It's mostly that they took out the humor that was in the book and replaced it with their own bad humor. And cut out a lot of plot points to make room for random fancy shots of landscapes and statuary. And everybody was played so flat and subdued that it didn't make sense why any of the characters cared about each other.

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skep 1 month ago

Well if you make them hot then they don't need personality. Everyone knows this.

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pixelglade 1 month ago

BBC Pride and Prejudice is superior. "Oh, my poor nerves!" Is what Mrs Bennett says when she sees the Kiera Knightly Pride and Prejudice.

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pixelglade 1 month ago

Though, some of the casting choices weren't too terrible

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skep 1 month ago

I recognize I do actually have to watch that version at some point.

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

I think they could have gotten away with 5 hours instead of 6, but the BBC is much truer to the spirit of the book. They actually let people be funny and ridiculous.

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caydence emilynhoward

1 month ago

Congrats on 100 followers!! That's a cool milestone!

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emilynhoward 1 month ago

Thank you! ^-^

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

2 months ago

prose/selflabeling.html

prose/saveinternet.html

prose/beingastranger.html

poetry/whocouldbehurtatthishour.html

poetry/towardsuffering.html

poetry/selfheal.html

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

Just made a lot of small corrections and updates, including adding alt text to my current Field Notes images.

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emilynhoward skep

2 months ago

I got your letter today! Will reply as existential crises allow.

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skep 2 months ago

That's reasonable, I'll check the mailbox in a couple years

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

2 months ago

prose/selflabeling.html

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changelog.html

about.html

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kolala 2 months ago

Late to your original question, but how about using labels to be as a safe space? For instance, I have my pronouns in my site even though it doesn't make a difference to me. I'm a cis woman, so the default she/her works. And even if someone misgenders me, I wouldn't care because I have never suffered from it.

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kolala 2 months ago

So in that case, rather than being a defensive thing, it's just to tell others that I'll respect their pronouns if they ever interacted with me. To try to make it safer for those who might be dealing with discrimination in other places. I rarely interact with others, but if there's a chance to make things a bit less hostile then it's worth it.

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kolala 2 months ago

Bonus reason: some blinkies and stuff are just cute ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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pixelglade 2 months ago

Agreed with Koala. Before I came out as trans, I didn't self-identify very much as anything online, in fact I preferred to hide it. But even coming against prejudice about being trans from even my own family and facing random abuse in public and online, self-identifying works as both indicating to others that I'm "in the know (e.g. about pronouns, etc)"/ am safe, and also practically works as a filter.

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pixelglade 2 months ago

Also, I've poked around on the old web on archives of geocities and others, there was quite a lot of self-identification especially in the LGBTQ community, much as there still is today. I haven't looked at other communities but I suspect your observation on race, nationality, etc, are the same. When there's so much information online, choosing who to follow or spend time with is important, labels help with that

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ghostscape 2 months ago

i think my thoughts are not comment-sized but: this topic is super interesting, your thoughts reflect a lot of my own feelings, and also the current comments are spot-on too. how I've felt about online labels over the years has maaassively changed and part of that is to do with the kind of privileges I have changing

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

@kolala Thanks for the perspective. Yeah, I think that different sites with different purposes use labels differently. For myself, I've had experiences where I thought I was a good ally and ended up causing harm, so I don't see myself as an expert on whether or not I'm a "safe" person. If someone is wondering if I am safe to approach, I would recommend that they read around my site a bit and decide for themselves.

emilynhoward 2 months ago

@pixelglade Several years ago, I got harrassed on the bus by someone claiming that they "couldn't tell" "what" I am. Shortly afterwards, I got some pride pins to put on my bag so nobody could claim to be confused about it and to take up space as a queer person. So I get that as a reason to self-label online. But to me there's a thin line between creating a community and creating an echo chamber in online spaces...

emilynhoward 2 months ago

...and that's the part that I'm still trying to figure out. I was not connected to the LGBTQ+ community in my early internet days, so I did not see the self-labeling happening there. My guess is that the practice started in small communities connecting around their identities and get got more mainstreamed over the years.

pixelglade emilynhoward

2 months ago

Another blog I follow also got a typewriter recently for seemingly similar reasons (as far as I can tell). They didn't use alt text unfortunately but they took a photo of the page they wrote for a blog post: https://jamesg.blog/2025/10/19/growth

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pixelglade 2 months ago

The first post with the typewriter: https://jamesg.blog/2025/10/19/beginnings-type-written

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

Ooh, thanks for this! You can kind of see the starry-eyed wonder that typewriters invoke. I have so far decided not to post images of my typewriting because it would require both high-res images and lots of alt text. But maybe I will one day with short bits of text.

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pixelglade 2 months ago

It might be possible to simplify the process of converting full-length pages of typewriter text to alt text using OCR like tesseract or something else, but even in that case, smaller segments will probably be easier. Personally I'd like to see an example of the text your typewriter produces, out of curiosity for how the letterforms look

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

My experiments so far with OCR have not worked out well. You'd think it would be easy for a computer to render typewriting into text, but the program I was using actually couldn't parse several of the letters. I will consider uploading some examples of text, though. Thanks for the suggesion!

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emilynhoward

2 months ago

If everyone removed their social location labels from their site (nationality, race, age, gender, disability, etc.) would you browse Neocities differently? Would your own website be different? Just trying to think through the usefulness and limits of labels.

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nohappynonsense 2 months ago

i was thinking lately i should update my about section, but when i just checked it i realized it is as bare bones as i'd like it to be while still existing and providing some navigation. i think labels are good for new visitors, to sort of orient themselves in a general direction of the author, but ultimately the writing/content of the site is where we truly learn about who's behind the html

barndoors 2 months ago

I'd judge way less while browsing. age range is the only stat I look for. no one does media queries here but you can't hate on a 14 yo's first chatgpt-less build

maxcrunch 2 months ago

self categorization is really important for me and I do self labeling as a way to get to know myself. sometimes you self label and then find out you're wrong. it's a harder question to answer for other people. for websites, I'm more into the style of expression than the actual person. although there are some people I followed only because they're only

maxcrunch 2 months ago

over 40* lol

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ghostscape 2 months ago

I don't usually go looking for those tbh: it's useful to know gender if I'm going to refer to someone (even if just to myself) but I don't think I know the rest about most of you unless it comes up organically

ghostscape 2 months ago

but then I am very into small-web anonymity. I've had enough of labels and minutely detailed self-branding as the cost of entry to a lot of social media and online spaces

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

Thanks for your responses @nohappynonsense @barndoors @maxcrunch @ghoatscape! I started typing my reply and realized that it was going to be way longer than a Neocities comment will allow, so I will try to put up a page on my site and link it here today or tomorrow. I appreciate all your perspectives.

emilynhoward 2 months ago

I did it! https://emilynhoward.neocities.org/prose/selflabeling

emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

2 months ago

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

I added some extracts from my journals. I don't know how you'll feel about it, but this is my favorite page that I've uploaded in a long time.

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maxcrunch 2 months ago

I love this, thank you for sharing your thoughts!

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nohappynonsense 2 months ago

this is like a cheat code to skip out on my own notebook practice and just get all the good stuff from yours

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sorbier emilynhoward

2 months ago

heya, just want you to know that canada post is on strike ): i haven't forgotten!!!

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

No worries! I hope it gets resolved soon!

emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

2 months ago

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

Wrote a silly little essay about owning a typewriter.

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skep 2 months ago

You ought to have written it on a typewriter and posted pictures of the pages. And then typed it all out again on the computer for the alt text.

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

@Skep you act as if this idea had not crossed my mind. But I don't hate myself quiiiiite that much.

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sorbier 2 months ago

thanks for this essay, i know you said you don’t romanticise the typewriter yet it’s still so cozy to think about drafting at that pace. bouncing ball imagery makes me think of pianists, i’m sure an obvious comparison — they way they strike the keys so purposefully and precisely

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ghostscape 2 months ago

ooh I've been pondering getting a typewriter recently, a decent one has popped up for sale near me. this isn't helping dissaude me 👀

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

@sorbier I was thinking about including the piano as a comparison because I imagine the mechanics are very similar to a typewriter. But I've never played piano so I didn't know if the feel would be similar.

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

@ghostscape I feel like I have been forthcoming as possible about how much of a pain in the butt typewriters are, so if this didn't dissuade you, nothing will.

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ghostscape 2 months ago

i am really curious about it as a physical experience (among other things). i used to play piano and i assume i'll be needing to rebuild those finger muscles

emilynhoward 2 months ago

You'll probably have a head start because you used to play piano, but yes, finger strength is definitely necessary!

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pixelglade 2 months ago

This was fascinating. I understand to some extent the forearm pain. Using braille input on a normal qwerty keyboard involves pushing multiple keys down at the same time in a sort of rhythm and I get pain after doing it for awhile. A Perkins brailler is much like a typewriter in design - I've never used one but it's a fascinating piece of machinery if you want to look up about it.

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hlomen 2 months ago

I really enjoyed reading this one, thanks!

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emilynhoward 2 months ago

@pixelglade Wow, that's so interesting. My workplace has a braille printer, but I had no idea that a typewriter for braille existed!

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

3 months ago

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changelog.html

collections/suf/episodes.html

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emilynhoward 3 months ago

New /now

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maxcrunch 3 months ago

I've always wanted to take a dance class! but I have such poor brain body coordination, like I know what I'm supposed to do and I know when the rhythm happens but my body just is not doing what I want it to do 🥲 I feel like dance class might help but also be very embarrassing at first! still. would be fun.

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maxcrunch 3 months ago

I also recommend On Being podcast if you can find episodes. it's not running anymore but the archives are incredibly beautiful. each episode goes over a topic and the host discusses with various folks their views on life and philosophy.

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emilynhoward 3 months ago

I am the same re: brain/body coordination. I don't have a strong sense of left or right. I'm not ambidextrous, but I'm neither truly left nor right-handed. I would not do well with partner or performance dance, but here I am not worried about doing steps a correct way, but exploring movement with my body as a whole. There's also a lot of value in learning things that we are not naturally talented at.

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emilynhoward 3 months ago

Yes, I love On Being. I haven't listened to it recently but have enjoyed many episodes.

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skep 3 months ago

I briefly mentioned last time I wrote you that I started taking a dance class. Still doing it! I still have no sense of rhythm but everybody has been very welcoming. Like it's just an excuse to get moving and laugh at ourselves.

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emilynhoward 3 months ago

@Skep Ooh yeah, I forgot to ask how the dance class was going. I'm glad it's working out. Laughing at oneself is key, I think.

emilynhoward

3 months ago

Added another Steven Universe Future episode and also a short essay I started on a while ago and decided to get out of my drafts.

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emilynhoward updated The Bone Folder

3 months ago

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collections/suf/13tf.html

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pixelglade 3 months ago

On "On being a stranger on the internet" - I learned about the study on in and out groups during my undergraduate year of psychology. It took me arguing with strangers on a forum for maybe 6 months for me to realize it though. The energy is best spent elsewhere. It's more rewarding to put energy into the IRL relationships that you can influence, even if in a small way.

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ghostscape 3 months ago

immediately adding "how minds change" to my reading list, thank you

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