wiredphantom
3 months ago
This is just my advice to you......if someone has truly changed, forgive them. And if you want to move forward, try to forget too, because holding on will only keep you stuck. Forgiveness brings peace ......I say this from my own experience. Nothing good ever comes from clinging to bad memories or thoughts of revenge. By the way, whatโs your MBTI?
velvetblue
3 months ago
thank you for the advice, the understanding, and the support. it really does mean a lot to me. <3 my MBTI is apparently INFP, i never did the test until now, so im not quite sure what it means, but i hope its good lol
xxlost-in-translationxx
3 months ago
thank you for sharing. ive been handling similar feelings of grief lately, and writing about what happened has been really validating when the people involved decide to ignore their uncomfortable history. ive been trying and failing to come to terms with my reality as it is now, knowing that i want to make space for the repressed past and for a future only limited by my abilities. havent figured it out yet
xxlost-in-translationxx
3 months ago
maybe you could work on the coding of the site? i noticed your style is included in the html files, maybe you can try migrating to CSS files? that would make site-wide changes easier too, if you want to redo a bunch of stuff
xxlost-in-translationxx
3 months ago
also gives you a chance to really look over your work and see what works and what you might want to change. your site is already impressive so it would just be a style choice, no pun intended ^_^
honestly i don't really plan out my pages?? i usually just look at what i have now, think of things id like to change, and go from there. sometimes i look at templates for inspiration, and make something similar, but a lot of times i just design pages impulsively. good luck on your own redesign at least <3
Ohh okk, I dont plan it out either . Thank you for answering ๐