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Hi myr! Wanna say that it is pleasing to look at your site, from the simplicity and the red, black, white palette. It looks pretty •ᴗ•, altho I missed your old blog layout
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Is it just me? I have been feeling bad for not linking people who have linked my button but at the same time some people I linked doesn't seem to link me anymore or like they don't know that I linked them-
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floralchai
3 weeks ago
My apology if some people here linked me but I haven't link them back, I feel like my emotions are really mixed
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floralchai
3 weeks ago
Something about linking each other's buttons in the indie web community is fascinating but at the same time it kinda feels like chasing for clout
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isntreal
3 weeks ago
i try to link everyone who has linked me so if i dont have the linked its a mistake, and i think its probably the same for most people. if i link someone, i dont expect them to link me back at all ive never rlly thought abt it. id have to agree, it can feel like clout chasing if u think abt it too hard
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harakanvarpu
3 weeks ago
I have no idea if there's any rules on it, unspoken or not. I personally think you shouldn't feel responsible for knowing everyone who has linked you, nor should you feel pressure to link back. It's a nice thing to do for people, but if it becomes a forced thing, it kinda loses sincerity imo.
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floralchai
3 weeks ago
@isntreal @harakanvarpu Thank you guys for the thoughts, I will reconsider on how to feel about linking others, shouldn't pressured myself too hard then!!
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Hi I'm glad you're back!!!
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things been getting rough for me, no time to update the site as i used to, but i will try to when i get the motivation back, just need to move my motivation to other importants things rn
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I also wanna try to use less discord and focus on other things! Might actually get myself a penpal too
thanks! I don't even remember my old blog layout