vivarism
3 months ago
finally... at long lost....... vivarism's giant anti man anti troon essay.........
vivarism
3 months ago
thank you so much kiley!!!! for your longer comment in my gb too, i'll reply there soon :+D and thank you to everyone else who chooses to remain in the shadows. one day we'll all be vindicated
vivarism
7 months ago
hi, do you feel more masculine when you mansplain intersectionality to a black lesbian? what YOU only find in books is my everyday experience. if your lily white ass is willing to read crenshaw then why dont you pick up some adichie while you're at it
vivarism
7 months ago
let that hold you over while i'm writing the next part of my essay. then you can come back to my profile and farm some more clout <3 and from the dawn of time to now and forevermore, NOTHING you say or do will make "trans women" anything but men in misogynistic costumes
nathanntan
7 months ago
Hi again! Your reply was incredibly rude for no reason. I'm not interested in acting masculine, and I had four women (all cis, since that matters to you) check it before I sent it to you. So let's not use mansplaining as an excuse to dismiss actual critic.
nathanntan
7 months ago
Yours is not constructive dialogue whatsoever, it's just being rude. And yes, I have also studied Adichie, gave an exam about her just in february. That wasn't the "got ya" moment you thought it was. "Nothing you say will change the fact that trans women ect.", that just shows that you have such a strong prejudice that no scientific argument will change it.
nathanntan
7 months ago
Your tone clearly shows you have no interest in hearing anything but your thoughts, so this will be my last time interacting with you. Have a good day.
vivarism
7 months ago
you are so deep in your cult, i seriously pity you. i have been exactly where you are and for your sake (and the sake of everyone you drag down with you) i hope you will stop ignoring the truth right in front of you
vivarism
8 months ago
A very nice, normal diary entry!!! Lots of room pics... some Sansposting... Have a nice day everybuddy
cloveratelier
8 months ago
how life feels when there's a new flonne blog (that one pic of the dolphins and the rainbows). happy belated birthday, im glad to hear you're doing better and are thriving! the routine stickers are such a good idea, i might give it a shot too since i have a tendency to muck up the order of mine/forget things too orz
vivarism
7 months ago
thank you for the well wishes kiley!!! if you decided to do stickers then i hope it helps. for me, it's definitely a game changer... and i want you to know cabbage that now i think of you every time i floss ;__+; <3!!!
vivarism
8 months ago
I would have followed you sooner if I knew you were on NC!!! I LOVE YOUR RADIO STATION!!!!!! And your essays!!!!! I'd tell you to stay cool too but IDK if the world can handle you getting any cooler.........
vivarism
9 months ago
Remember the worst page on Vivarism? The one that set your computer on fire with CSS animations??? Yeah, here it is again. (And here I am again!!! Nice to see you, friends)
vivarism
9 months ago
"Woman is a social identity, not a sexual one." Yikes. Take a look at this and lmk if you still believe such BS. https://vivarism.net/diary/25/gallery/sigh.png
vivarism
8 months ago
OMG, foiled by my own anti-hotlinking measures. Same image, now a working link: https://i.postimg.cc/7YBy1wx3/sigh.png My apologies. I have a whole essay to write about this later anyways.
vivarism
11 months ago
clickbait title: flonne says the most unhinged shit ever, proving she is a legit bigot fr fr. anyways im sleepy, love you all, goodnight
penzpage
11 months ago
This is really gross and I'm disappointed to have been following you in the first place. Trans women have always been a part of our community and so many of our battles have been won SPECIFICALLY because of trans women. I know this message won't change your mind and you're only going to double down further, but I hope that one day you have the epiphany you need. Get well soon.
vivarism
11 months ago
THIS is the epiphany my friend. Maybe one day you'll have it too. I'm guessing you believe the revisionist history about Stonewall, "Marsha" P. Johnson, etc? You might want to learn what actually happened. (Short ver: he ain't even there.) The men you're caping for wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. They'd post pics of your charred corpse to porn sites
vivarism
11 months ago
"I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my femaleness and my femininity. And I want to be respected in all of my femaleness because I deserve to be." โ Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
vivarism
11 months ago
Also THANK YOU to everyone who comments on, interacts with, or even just silently reads my updates... I have been too shy to reply ๐ฅบ๐ It's my aim to get back on NC soon-- assuming this blogpost doesn't obliterate the small web lol
birdwrongs
11 months ago
If I may say this gentlyโI'm glad you found a way to be you that you're happy with! But not everyone has the same experiences; so many of my friends are genuinely happier having transitioned to the gender they identify with. Less depressed, more able to engage with the world, more comfortable expressing themselves.
birdwrongs
11 months ago
You mention that it's not bad that you developed early, it's bad that boys and men harassed you over itโand the reason why trans depression and suicide rates are so high is often because of the way that society treats trans people. I think those experiences could be ones to connect over, rather than a reason to dismiss other people's experiences of gender. Just food for thought.
vivarism
11 months ago
Dear Birdwrongs, thank you for your gentleness. But I must point out that you can enjoy all the gender nonconformity of a trans identity without believing and spreading misogynistic lies. If those friends of yours are "happier" espousing a cultlike ideology, I'd guess they're ignorant or in denial about sexism, or perhaps one of the rare Evil Women who gets off on misogyny and child abuse
vivarism
11 months ago
Bcus that's what the trans community promotes. Once you see it, you cannot UNsee it, and that's why I keep talking about it. Maybe I didn't talk about it ENOUGH, honestly... Basically: Drop the T, just be GNC! There is nothing inferior or incorrect about being female
birdwrongs
11 months ago
my friends are quite aware of sexism, in fact! none of them made their decisions about their gender based on stereotypesโI know femme trans men and butch trans women and plenty of others with unique relationships to gender. and, wellโthey all so frequently disagree on things that it's hard to think of them as a cult, ha ha.
birdwrongs
11 months ago
As a cis lesbian fully happy with where I am genderwise, I've found a lot of solidarity and kinship with trans people. Of course, I don't know the people you've met, but you haven't met my friends, either, and those are some big assumptions.
birdwrongs
11 months ago
It's perfectly possible to care for the rights and wellness of women while not being one or not having been born one, and seeing that in the people I know gives me hope for the world and for the way things could be. I hope you can see that hope in people, too, even if they don't relate to gender the way you do.
cabbagesorter
11 months ago
I've been inactive lately because life got in the way and im extremely exhausted but ill always stand by you flonne, this was beautifully written!!! love u
vivarism
11 months ago
As usual, I had too much to say to respond with just comments. Let's all be mindful of other's feeds and, if you are also feeling wordy, link a text file or your own blog, or post a new message directly to my profile to start a new comment thread. https://vivarism.net/diary/25/mini.txt
vaultofsky
11 months ago
Thanks so much for writing this. It's so important; especially sinister is how this movement is advertised to young girls. I also experimented with being NB, in retrospect I wanted to feel stronger and be released from social expectation. Realized pretending that I wasn't a girl didn't change anything and I can still be as masc as I want otherwise. I'm just glad I didn't go on T like my friends, who now regret it.
vivarism
1 year ago
happy new year everybuddy (โหโหโ) no clickbait today, only peace and love. the biggest of big Thank You's to @cloverbell for drawing the art i used on my new yume section!!!!
daughterofbilitis
1 year ago
happy new year, flonne! your customizations are all super cute! (i really need to redownload rainmeterโฆ) maybe you could have one big sans in the middle and all the others kinda circle around him?
cloverbell
1 year ago
omg no way front and center on the vivarism yume pageโฆ happy new year Flonne! wishing you lots of health and luck and sans ^_-
loves1ck
1 year ago
happy new year flonne!! as usual, seeing your web work is such a joy. congrats on the move and i hope 2025 is amazing for you โฅ
cloverbell
1 year ago
OMG I am so happy you are playing Groove Coaster and loving it!! I agree, its so underrated! The maps are so detailed and themed perfectly to their respective songs. If you ever get the chance to, you should try playing the groove coaster arcade cabinet. Its sooo fun, and my favorite way to play it. I used to play it so much I was on the leaderboard at my local arcade lol!
allyratworld
1 year ago
Happy New Year Flonne!! Your customizations are so cute, maybe I should customize my desktop a bit... Volcano Princess looks really cute and fun, I'll have to check it out
i made a page all about gokiburi-chan!!! and finally put up a gallery for my SANSDOLL bjd :+D there's lots of other little things, too, mostly teasing content to come... can you find it all?!
OMG, SANS YUME!! This is so beautiful, I love it. :,-(
goki-chan and san's dynamic is so interesting and i really love how you draw them! also her antennae are so cute! <3
thank you so much, melody and celeste!!! especially about her antennae hehehe, it took a few tries to get them right!