A very nice, normal diary entry!!! Lots of room pics... some Sansposting... Have a nice day everybuddy

how life feels when there's a new flonne blog (that one pic of the dolphins and the rainbows). happy belated birthday, im glad to hear you're doing better and are thriving! the routine stickers are such a good idea, i might give it a shot too since i have a tendency to muck up the order of mine/forget things too orz

omg fellow floss pain enjoyer!!

thank you for the well wishes kiley!!! if you decided to do stickers then i hope it helps. for me, it's definitely a game changer... and i want you to know cabbage that now i think of you every time i floss ;__+; <3!!!

Remember the worst page on Vivarism? The one that set your computer on fire with CSS animations??? Yeah, here it is again. (And here I am again!!! Nice to see you, friends)

clickbait title: flonne says the most unhinged shit ever, proving she is a legit bigot fr fr. anyways im sleepy, love you all, goodnight

This is really gross and I'm disappointed to have been following you in the first place. Trans women have always been a part of our community and so many of our battles have been won SPECIFICALLY because of trans women. I know this message won't change your mind and you're only going to double down further, but I hope that one day you have the epiphany you need. Get well soon.

THIS is the epiphany my friend. Maybe one day you'll have it too. I'm guessing you believe the revisionist history about Stonewall, "Marsha" P. Johnson, etc? You might want to learn what actually happened. (Short ver: he ain't even there.) The men you're caping for wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. They'd post pics of your charred corpse to porn sites

"I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my femaleness and my femininity. And I want to be respected in all of my femaleness because I deserve to be." — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Also THANK YOU to everyone who comments on, interacts with, or even just silently reads my updates... I have been too shy to reply 🥺💕 It's my aim to get back on NC soon-- assuming this blogpost doesn't obliterate the small web lol

If I may say this gently—I'm glad you found a way to be you that you're happy with! But not everyone has the same experiences; so many of my friends are genuinely happier having transitioned to the gender they identify with. Less depressed, more able to engage with the world, more comfortable expressing themselves.

You mention that it's not bad that you developed early, it's bad that boys and men harassed you over it—and the reason why trans depression and suicide rates are so high is often because of the way that society treats trans people. I think those experiences could be ones to connect over, rather than a reason to dismiss other people's experiences of gender. Just food for thought.

Dear Birdwrongs, thank you for your gentleness. But I must point out that you can enjoy all the gender nonconformity of a trans identity without believing and spreading misogynistic lies. If those friends of yours are "happier" espousing a cultlike ideology, I'd guess they're ignorant or in denial about sexism, or perhaps one of the rare Evil Women who gets off on misogyny and child abuse

Bcus that's what the trans community promotes. Once you see it, you cannot UNsee it, and that's why I keep talking about it. Maybe I didn't talk about it ENOUGH, honestly... Basically: Drop the T, just be GNC! There is nothing inferior or incorrect about being female

my friends are quite aware of sexism, in fact! none of them made their decisions about their gender based on stereotypes—I know femme trans men and butch trans women and plenty of others with unique relationships to gender. and, well—they all so frequently disagree on things that it's hard to think of them as a cult, ha ha.

As a cis lesbian fully happy with where I am genderwise, I've found a lot of solidarity and kinship with trans people. Of course, I don't know the people you've met, but you haven't met my friends, either, and those are some big assumptions.

It's perfectly possible to care for the rights and wellness of women while not being one or not having been born one, and seeing that in the people I know gives me hope for the world and for the way things could be. I hope you can see that hope in people, too, even if they don't relate to gender the way you do.

I've been inactive lately because life got in the way and im extremely exhausted but ill always stand by you flonne, this was beautifully written!!! love u

As usual, I had too much to say to respond with just comments. Let's all be mindful of other's feeds and, if you are also feeling wordy, link a text file or your own blog, or post a new message directly to my profile to start a new comment thread. https://vivarism.net/diary/25/mini.txt

Thanks so much for writing this. It's so important; especially sinister is how this movement is advertised to young girls. I also experimented with being NB, in retrospect I wanted to feel stronger and be released from social expectation. Realized pretending that I wasn't a girl didn't change anything and I can still be as masc as I want otherwise. I'm just glad I didn't go on T like my friends, who now regret it.

happy new year everybuddy (●ˇ∀ˇ●) no clickbait today, only peace and love. the biggest of big Thank You's to @cloverbell for drawing the art i used on my new yume section!!!!

happy new year, flonne! your customizations are all super cute! (i really need to redownload rainmeter…) maybe you could have one big sans in the middle and all the others kinda circle around him?

Based Dalai Lama enjoyer!! (As if I'm not the direct cause of this.)

Happy New Year! I wish you all the best in your new home.

omg no way front and center on the vivarism yume page… happy new year Flonne! wishing you lots of health and luck and sans ^_-

happy new year flonne!! as usual, seeing your web work is such a joy. congrats on the move and i hope 2025 is amazing for you ♥

OMG I am so happy you are playing Groove Coaster and loving it!! I agree, its so underrated! The maps are so detailed and themed perfectly to their respective songs. If you ever get the chance to, you should try playing the groove coaster arcade cabinet. Its sooo fun, and my favorite way to play it. I used to play it so much I was on the leaderboard at my local arcade lol!

Happy New Year Flonne!! Your customizations are so cute, maybe I should customize my desktop a bit... Volcano Princess looks really cute and fun, I'll have to check it out

happy new year!!

kyle neocities you WILL make thumbnail previews for my offsite page updates I COMMAND THEE.... anyways, go read my new blog https://vivarism.net/diary/24/1125 goodnight <333

i forgot the clickbait? the clickbait is i beat the bpd allegations

congrats on beating the bpd allegations! i empathise a lot with some of the stuff you've written here, especially since I was on tumblr when the BPD self-dx thing was really going around and wanted an answer for why i was Like That:tm:. cheering on your efforts towards being your vivariest (if it works as an adjective, lol) self as always!

Im always wishing you the best floone! I'm so happy you have support system to help you. You know i'm always here for you 🩵🧡

I feel torn on the concept of personality disorders because on one hand, it's a pretty modern concept and a bandaid diagnosis for what can easily be described as environmental behaviors that cause PTSD/C-PTSD + the whole trope that women are branded as "BPD" by professionals for any little thing. Some autistic traits can be considered BPD. But the specific patterns of behavior attached to "the big ones" are real.

And the trendiness of it in certain communities makes people actively want to "be" that, reshape their behavior to "fit" it, or weaponize it to justify actual abusive behavior... I'm guilty of throwing around the phrase derogatorily and have gone under fire for it in private, but how it's kind of a meme-y trendy dx is why. I don't know where I'm going with this.

I've read this entry twice now, it's both very accurate and insightful.

Floone, you are so strong, resilient, brave, and kind. I'm incredibly proud of you. Never forget the world is a better place with you in it. <3

@kiley omg my vivariest... that absolutely took me out. thank you for that and for your encouragement too <333 @poom, i love you so much 🥺💚 thank you for everything!!! @capy whoa im glad that you found my entry so interesting!!! labels can only be so useful. it's interesting how they influence our perceptions of others. & @robyn I LOVE YOU!!!!! my world is better with YOU in it 💖

DONT LOOK YET. IM... FIXING THINGS.

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┏ (゜ω゜)=☞ https://vivarism.net/ ☆☆☆(o゜▽゜)o EVERYONE PLEASE LOOK AT VIVARISM 3.0!!!!!! (it wont show up on neocities... im working on it)

vivarism 3.0 looks amazing, i'm loving all the changes!!

The return of Flonne wahoo!! New layout is super cute, and congrats on self employment!! Also your flonne.net layout is gorgeous (reminding me i need to play more disgaea ahhh)

This is stunning!!!!!! Congrats on 3.0 <3

oh hey!!! you're back!!! nice to see you!!

Happy birthday and happy 3.0!!!

thank you everyone for taking a peek at my hard work <333 It's great to see you all again!

Good to see you back on here. Have a lovely time !

so so so so very cute! I had fun looking through everything... adorable and impeccably designed as always. Welcome back! ^^

This is so cute!! I will forever be impressed with your design skills. Everything is always so clean and cohesive. S-tier layout.

Cutest update yet! Your aesthetic taste for kidcore is unmatched. I love browsing Vivarism so much. Truly, the CSS princess ヽ(✿ﾟ▽ﾟ)ノ

awww ahhh youre all so sweet to me! thank you so much!!!