milk-tea
11 months ago
receiving the Goat status for my site for da first time ever....ive truly made it 😭 Will keep this interaction close to my heart forever
littlewren
11 months ago
thanks a lot! It definitely made living a bit more magic, trying to find beauty in the little things. I was inspired by @vashti so I recommend checking out her site, it’s one of my favorites on Neocities.
marea
11 months ago
thank uuuuuuuu your site RULES i'll read it in depth when i get on the puter (i didn't even know people read my statuses ha)
milk-tea
11 months ago
@marea HELP theres barely stuff on it to be read... college has been draining me for months now but i do plan on uploading writing and art some time soon UWAH i do have like 2 extremely boring diary entries on it though
marea
11 months ago
haha dw i've barely published a sliver of my work on my own site and i've had it for like three years now..... It happens
catboo
1 year ago
it's kinda confusing how people associate cutesy with non-serious stuff and dark, spooky with serious... can people not have diff aesthetics and talk abt the same stuff in the same context? anyways the site looks absolutely fire so far :3c
milk-tea
1 year ago
@catboo Yeah this is exactly what i mean! not just dark, spooky per se but extreme minimalism and text-heavy pages too. biases like this can be obvious given the context of the society we're in but i wish people would look beyond something's face value and engage with things with a clear head especially in situations that involve artistry or self-expression. BTW thank you! currently dying trying to make it responsive
burgeritchi
1 year ago
this and ur reply to catboo r both VERY real i totally get what your saying esp w the minimilistic like "mysterious" serious sites. i get jealous sometimes that i feel i cant talk or act like that on my site but im trying to break that barrier in myself anywa.
milk-tea
1 year ago
@burgeritchi You are soooo real for this omg 😭 this has happened to me on several occasions (found someone with a page with literature-centric content or beautiful prose that i really liked and would've dissected with them if they became my mutual) and although a trivial thing, i've often felt ashamed in my need to immediately strip down on my aesthetic and put My writing on the forefront just so they'd take me +
milk-tea
1 year ago
seriously and consider me worthy for genuine connection. but what i've told myself in these situations is that my site is for my own happiness only and not primarily a medium of subtle communication with others, and although internalizing this will take time i think telling yourself this time and again is key
makoenergy
1 year ago
personally (from an objective standpoint) i feel like the way your site looks didn't affect my perception of your content!! it's all about how you verbalize your thoughts... people who make a first judgement based off the look of your site probably weren't worth your time anyway lol. hang in there!!
makoenergy
1 year ago
^ i do understand how you feel though LOL. my site is very dark-themed but in reality i'm a girly girl who loves pretending she's paris hilton lol
burgeritchi
1 year ago
@milk-tea UR R ABSOLUTELY RIGHT ABT THE INTERNALIZATION THING!! i get embarressed and sometimes even on my own blog want to cut things out of my thoughts bc "that doesnt suite what someone would think when they look at my site" but what does it matter!! i am myself. i love cute stuff but i can also be serious and crass and sad and wtvr. no one owes anyone anyting
burgeritchi
1 year ago
@makoenergy i totally got girly girl vibes from u when looking at ur site!! like u said, its how u verbalize ur thoughts.
AAAAA tysm!! i actually love ur site sooooooo MUCHHHH