I've only accepted myself as a dyke since a couple years ago. But it sucks navigating online lesbian spaces b/c you still find plenty of anti-mspec gatekeepers and out-and-out transphobes. It makes me really tired and angry, esp. for trans women and transfem dykes. Plus genderfuckery has historically played a HUGE role in lesbian culture?? Excluding other dykes for being mspec and/or trans is clownshoes behavior.
Also added Ryoko from Tenchi Muyo (babydyke's first anime wife) to my homepage! Say, "Hi, Ryoko!"