fearoffun
1 month ago
🥹🥹 ouu wow thank you so much....... you are so, so kind . n ur website is so cute !! lovely color palette 🩷
fearoffun
2 months ago
🥹 auuuw.. thank u so much !! ur site is so lovely i love its decorative elements
flowerinbinary
2 months ago
i feel like i apologize a lot for this kind of thing because i feel like there's a certain expectation of me to work on my website more consistently. but then i remember that it is literally toys and if you don't feel like playing with it - that's ok
vendovendo
2 months ago
facts!! we should do things on our own pace, sometimes we just don't got any updates and that's just fine, that logic belongs to mainstream social media sites, here we can play, add stuff to our sites, explore, but i think the most important thing is the time to rest that we can get not using screens at all, neocities doesn't suck our attention and isn't trying to find ways to keep us on screen 24/7, it really rules
fearoffun
2 months ago
wowowow thank u so much !! that's so kind of u..... i was just admiring how pretty ur site is @_@ the colors n the decorative elements are too lovely...!
fearoffun
4 months ago
aw of course !! i hope it's super helpful for u . n THANK YOU :.) so sweet <33
i think most mainstream platforms are counterintuitively designed to reward combative spaces since inflammatory content proves to be more engaging to users, so starting offline would probably be for the best at first. but i think they're incredibly useful for hosting and organizing irl community events, which at least in my experience are more effective at building stronger emotional relationships to those around you
@reyn so true !! it makes me so sad that platforms are designed to reward combative spaces... and it really shows too :(( but yes, i think prioritizing building community and fostering interpersonal relationships is really important for the development of more empathy and kindness in online spaces... irl first then url . THANK U FOR UR FEEDBACK.......
honestly i find that when i get in arguments online w people (which i used to do very often) and reply in good faith/not immediately combatively/patiently ppl tend to just chill out and respond normally even if we disagree. ofc this depends on who it is though