devhank
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            I like your board game section, will try your recommendations bc I've never tried any of them
            kirbeedia
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            this is sick! transatlanticism was the first CD i ever bought back in middle school, very nostalgic
            zhongvie
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            yakuza ruined my life is the funniest way to put that—i really need to finish y0
            crotovane
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            "the crime drama storytelling of [pre-kiwami] kiryu and majima is so god damn tight" yesss another kiwami hater <3 (joking, but maybe not after this kiwami 3 drama...)
            fearoffun
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            yay it looks great :D !!!!!!! i love that you included board games... makes my heart happie
            cervidaze
            
              3 weeks ago
            
            uncomfortable because poor user design frustrates me, sad because i want my site to be pleasant to navigate for me and others
            limovars
            
              3 weeks ago
            
            reyn ur site is super accessible to me on mobile and desktop 🏵️ u don’t have to apologise!
            inthemeantimewecry
            
              3 weeks ago
            
            i really like how you have organized your site so far! but i can totally understand the need to always "improve" user design... even if the site doesn't need any improvement at all
            fearoffun
            
              2 weeks ago
            
            YOU'VE GOT THIS REYN your website is already so gorgeous so whatever you choose to do in the end will be just as stunning i'm sure... you'll get there eventually !!!! :.D but you are so valid in that it makes u uncomfy n sad.. *hug*
            cervidaze
            
              1 month ago
            
            new blog post (https://cervidaze.me/blog/posts/2025-09-28-iknowwhenfallishere) also i started cleaning up my code and applying OOCSS so apologies for any bugs i've missed
            cervidaze
            
              1 month ago
            
            my object oriented gf is fucking debugging my entire fucking site rn this is so sad
            cervidaze
            
              1 month ago
            
            huge update! updated neighbors' buttons and navigation, BUT ALSO totally new /media page!! will eventually add my thoughts/reviews to the stuff i consume, but wanted to get the page up first: https://cervidaze.me/media
            fearoffun
            
              1 month ago
            
            balatro enjoyers unite..! i wonder if you would like calculate it or dice a million :} they are also roguelikes
            cervidaze
            
              1 month ago
            
            HAHAHA thank you guys :') @niko i must check these out, i love a good rougelike and i love getting recs from cool friends :)
            cervidaze
            
              1 month ago
            
            CONGRATULATIONS!!!! YOU ARE THE 69TH FOLLOWER!!!! PLEASE RECEIVE YOUR $5000 GIFT CARD AT [MALICIOUS LINK] DOT COM!!!!
            projectc190
            
              1 month ago
            
            was this a global girlfriend update or something bc this seems exactly like shit my gf would say too
            limovars
            
              2 months ago
            
            ohh i feel this in many ways. you nailed how the “no surf”/internet abstinence/digital detox movement’s primary goal is still to be more productive and maximize shareholder value 😑 there’s no ethical consumption under capitalism, as long as we try as much to consume mindfully, boycott whenever we can, not replace consumption with even more consumption, we are already doing our best. i also like how you go very +
            limovars
            
              2 months ago
            
            deeply into analysing the different motivations behind digital minimalism and appreciate your honesty about how one step in the wrong direction can lead us down undesirable rabbit holes. so sorry if this is incoherent or rambly, i just relate to this so much… look forward to more as always reyn:-)
            fearoffun
            
              2 months ago
            
            hi reyn !! i loved reading your thoughts on digital minimalism. it's been a journey for me to try and find an alternative to spotify as well... i have a cd collection which is nice but no cd player in my car (where i mostly listen to lyrical music) 😔 i've used soundcloud but ultimately decided it's not for me.... also !! i wanted to recommend japanese rock band toe to you and the latest sunset rollercoaster album ✨
            zhongvie
            
              2 months ago
            
            obsidian really is a ‘put it together’ app (i say as i also have begun using it for more weird things like a whole wiki for my genshin characters to know What i have without needing to get on), but at least due to its age its got a decent amount of templates that just need wading through over complicated garbage to find
            cervidaze
            
              2 months ago
            
            @limovars this is so affirming to hear, thank you so much :') i've been finding success with loosely applying minimalism's core philosophy of being intentional with the things you consume/introduce to your life, before hustle culture bastardized it! no worries about coherence/rambling, i love when people comment :) thank you for reading
            cervidaze
            
              2 months ago
            
            @fearoffun we are god's strongest musicless soldiers :') i love my CDs but i like being able to shuffle/listen to multiple artists in one sitting, so maybe i should digitize them into one big mixtape or playlist.... thank you so much for the recs, i love toe!! immaculate taste. i didn't know sunset rollercoaster released a new album, i gotta get on that asap! thank you for reading <3
            cervidaze
            
              2 months ago
            
            @zhongvie i'm slowly beginning to appreciate obsidian and how granular its features are! i'm sorry if i slighted you with my complaints about the kinds of tutorials available, the one you recommended did help me understand obsidian's logic and i appreciate it a lot :') if you have any templates you like that make using obsidian easier, i'd love to pick your thoughts! thank you for reading :)
            daliwali
            
              2 months ago
            
            any sort of business/productivity book is an infohazard to me... disconnecting yourself from big tech is a worthwhile goal, they have always been wolves in sheep's clothing.
            cervidaze
            
              2 months ago
            
            @daliwali the amount of times i've been shilled shit like "how to win friends and influence people," "48 laws of power," and "the subtle art of not giving a fuck".... fucked up. i'm already finding a lot of benefits from removing a decent amount of big tech from my life and it's genuinely nice to reclaim some elements of control over my digital life. thank you for reading!
            mekongred
            
              2 months ago
            
            sooo real, i feel like self help books are very much a product of capitalist individualism, they centre themselves on how you the person can best learn to navigate life under the capitalist structure rather than questioning the cause of the decay. i dont think everybody who reads self-help/improvement books is annoying, but the most annoying people you will ever meet will swear by the very same wellness slop books!!
            cervidaze
            
              2 months ago
            
            @mekongred you put it so well, yes exactly! i wish there were more accessible reading materials for those that are burnt out and disillusioned, because there are definitely plenty of resources out there that explain the nature of capitalist disillusionment but of course that's not typically where someone would look if they don't know they're struggling under capitalism in the first place!
in the meantime, here is his gofundme campaign! is vetted + donation protected + i've personally video called him before (https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-ibrahims-fight-for-survival/cl/s?utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&lang=en_US)