Reply to your emails, ffs.

I sent two replies since your first email but cock.li just flat out sucks. I'll see if I can send you a response today. Granted, I only check my email on a weekly basis.

"It works 10% of 10% of 10% of time it works, no guartanees though" - what I'd expect an ad for them would be. It's sad.

Is there a sex organ-shaped protrusion/orifice in the molt or what?

You have to look at the epigastric furrow in the abdomen. There's a small little flap you have to look for to identify a female from a molt. The male A. seemanni also has less apparent stripes compared to the female. I had someone online who is more experienced in tarantula keeping comfirm for me as well.

https://i.imgur.com/q2gOcyu.jpg Here's a quick visual example. The male on top is nowhere near as stocky as the female on the bottom. The skeleton leg pattern also not as visible on the male as it is the female