lol my coord flopped and i had a friendship breakup with a friend back in the US bc they've been progressively more self centered and shitty toward me since getting into lolita......... happy ILD to me i guess ദ്ദി ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ )
they decided p early on in their lolita journey that they 100% do not give a fuck about anything other than meta plus size and full shirring everything else, to the point of telling me point blank "i don't care about that because it's not plus sized" whenever i told them i was excited about some old school AP i had bought.. it got to the point where they sent me all their coords, all their haul photos, never asked me
anything abt my coords or activities, fully ignored me or gave me the bare minimum when i volunteered being excited abt smth for my own sake. today i told them that their treatment for the past year has hurt my feelings, and all they said was "sorry this month is busy for me at work." bruhhhhh
i mentioned *three times* to them this week how excited i was about aatp persian rug, and in return i got: meta haul, btssb sock haul, triple fortune haul, literally zero acknowledgement of anything i said other than when i congratulated their haul
thank you for the kind words ♡ the weird thing is we got along great for 10+ years until they got into lolita, then they almost instantly became really selfish and rude. me and a friend were joking about them having bought "the cursed meta JSK that turns you into a shitty friend" heh
they decided p early on in their lolita journey that they 100% do not give a fuck about anything other than meta plus size and full shirring everything else, to the point of telling me point blank "i don't care about that because it's not plus sized" whenever i told them i was excited about some old school AP i had bought.. it got to the point where they sent me all their coords, all their haul photos, never asked me
anything abt my coords or activities, fully ignored me or gave me the bare minimum when i volunteered being excited abt smth for my own sake. today i told them that their treatment for the past year has hurt my feelings, and all they said was "sorry this month is busy for me at work." bruhhhhh
i mentioned *three times* to them this week how excited i was about aatp persian rug, and in return i got: meta haul, btssb sock haul, triple fortune haul, literally zero acknowledgement of anything i said other than when i congratulated their haul
I'm sorry to hear that but she sounds insufferable, your lolita life will be better without her negativity in it I'm sure
thank you for the kind words ♡ the weird thing is we got along great for 10+ years until they got into lolita, then they almost instantly became really selfish and rude. me and a friend were joking about them having bought "the cursed meta JSK that turns you into a shitty friend" heh