It's really bad for guys who are shy or don't know how to stand up for themselves. I was friends with an autistic guy whose wife dragged him to a sex party and then publicly accused him of rping her, on facebook, because she didn't want to have sex with him at the sex party. Because he's autistic he couldn't read her well enough to tell she was uncomfortable, and of course she didn't just tell him.

So she told us in a facebook post, and he apologized. on her facebook post. later she divorced him and now he's transgender. He was a nice, smart guy, but he never had a chance against what she was doing to him.

unfortunately I'm not able to reply for whatever reason, but damn dude i hope that guys okay. You know what, the one friend i mentioned that's on meds now? he's gay now, he told me that the whole incident put him off of women. i feel so bad for men that have to go through this shit :(

same, and even men who don't have to go through it are spooked just by the prospect. one of my best friends is just *scared* of getting involved with girls, he sees all these anti-relationship memes, and every once in a while get gets really gloomy and tries to justify it to me. I have to like lecture him into not giving up hope, but I don't really blame him. No-one teaches us how to interact with the opposite sex,

and the stakes are just really high, and it's very uh, hard to be "careful" in romance. But I hate seeing guys give up, no matter how brutal it can be.

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