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zazilicious
1 month ago
I had a really similar experience with the one and only girl I ever dated, which was near the end of high school. Historically, i'd only ever been with or been interested in men, but I was super lonely and unconsciously wanted a way to explore feminity because of trans reasons. She was incredibly abusive, and it was a nightmare that scared me off of relationships all together for a while, but then I met my current-
zazilicious
1 month ago
-boyfriend, and nearly 7 years later things are great!! I am also demi, and I despite being primarily sexually and romantically attracted to men, I am also by default terrified of men, so all of that makes me have a lot of complicated feelings about love and attachment as well, and I definitely think I am coming out of this whole thing luckier than most, since I happened to meet someone at just the right time
the users and the connections they form together are what make neocities what it is, definitely doesn't have to happen on this platform specifically. hope you can find some respite wherever you go
yeah felt. the recent terf stuff has me feeling gross about it all. I'm probably gonna stay just because I dont like change, but I really hate terfs being so active and influential here
yeah i caught wind of the huge terf influence on this platform back in 2023 even. wasn't enough to deter me either, but it's a contributing factor stacked on everything else that bothers me.