the most mortifying thing would clearly be to gush some bit about some crush on ur site and for the crush to end up seeing it and realizing its about them (absolutely not talking from experience no)

but, ultimately, despite the circumstances, to quote the person, "eh it's your site write whatever you want"

*addendum: maybe a bit less mortifying if you'd confessed your feelings beforehand anyway (even if to inconclusive response SMH :-p)

oh wow, I retract my earlier statement haha. this is why no one I know irl knows I have a site...

yeahh tbf i keep my purely-irl (family n that) out of the loop bout this ideally also fwiw; the person in question's from the hybrid url/irl music enjoyer circuits im in (irl by way of me attending events across europe sometimes) and i havent kept my site a pure secret in those circuits ahah

for what any of this is worth though, i still survived this...! but now thinking maybe the actual most mortifying thing hypothetically would, depending on circumstances, be for one's parent or equivalent to see one's site instead... especially what with machine translation abilities nowadays (my parents dont speak english much at all)