acetaminophriends
6 days ago
I'll elaborate later on my blog but there's not much else to say tbh. Christian ideals as an extension of misogyny blah blah blah
acetaminophriends
6 days ago
And despite anyone's intentions, I don't know who said this but I've heard this quote, "the purpose of a system is what it does"
acetaminophriends
6 days ago
I do not really want to have to read about systems theory just to be sure I'm using a quote right in my blog posting about religious trauma but fine I guess
babywormcore
6 days ago
As a queer person, the whole cishet romance genre seems to be 'what if a man was emotionally available' and it lowkey distresses me.
acetaminophriends
6 days ago
Like I was gonna say--the message essentially boils down to "you should keep waiting because he's just a lost sad man that needs to find his way to christ and you" and the secular version of that is "you can and should fix him because he's just a sad lost man and he needs to find his way to you" like either way it's keeping women in this submissive state of complacency.
acetaminophriends
6 days ago
I would love to see the "I can fix them" mentality explored as a toxic trait or tragedy rather than idealistic romance. The only stories I can think of that do this are my own, godbless
acetaminophriends
2 weeks ago
Actually it wrecked a long time ago but as one car crashes off the cliffs another is added to the tail end and so you see this never ending sequence of violence and disaster. And it's all on purpose, though you wouldn't think it.
acetaminophriends
2 weeks ago
Beau Is Afraid showed me art can be so deliciously harrowing! It reminded me I don't owe anyone common sense if it doesn't serve the story.
I had more nightmares last night but not even petscop themed, just simply because of the aura of fear lingering. I'm such a baby lol