"My partner came home and scooped me up like I was a cat and just twirled me around singing about it." so sweeeeeet + grats on new job :'] / re the friend, tbf having a disorder isn't an excuse to be a dick to yr friends, & all that; good luck with handling it all in ways you can... 🤧

Unsolicited advice, so take it or leave it, but I found KC Davis's book Who Deserves Your Love very helpful for understanding boundaries and how to make decisions about whether/to what extent to cut someone out of your life.

@sneek, thank you, I'm excited! It helps to hear that from others and has been shifting my perspective, I appreciate it. @emily, I usually read books to figure out how to handle these types of things, so I appreciate the recommendation! Thank you, it's going on my "to be read" list.

I do NOT understand what is going on with your former boss ????????? I'm glad the situation seems to be working out though ?? (also I see all your foodposting in this and I love it)

I agree. It feels like maybe he feels bad? Or, I did a bad job, but he knows I can do better so he is trying to be supportive?? I dunno lol. Also, big fermenting weekend coming up for more food posting!

your blogs are always so lovely to read. i like your point about the "elders" in your life especially, and overall just how thoughtful you are in your writings. good luck with that assignment btw ^^

oh my god, i want to live in peach and pickle heaven like you. re: elders, i agree completely. it's hard to break away from their ideas and judgment, but in the end you gotta do what's best for you. congrats on the move!

I've been with my partner 9 months and we just started the moving in together talks, I feel like if the communication is there and you're spending so much time together anyway then why wait longer? Congrats!

Why is waiting 2 years better exactly. I say go for it. As always lovely to get an update from you !

Btw if you ever want to post more details on the fermenting, I would be interested !

On the edge of my seat about the armored combat potential hobby, LOVE how you wrote the beginning of that paragraph. It finds some kind of emotional resonance.

I love reading these updates. Happy for you sauer !!!!!!!

Thank you Manul!!!! I'm having a great time :-)

"I’m tired of fighting my nature and general inclinations" I RELATE... Honestly I'm really happy for you Sauer. But your work team does need to get in the game if they can't manage a single day unsupervised !!

sauer i am so stoked to read your last few updates!!! hell yeah go get life

Thank you both! I agree about my team lol. I have become quite ambitious of late and am really enjoying getting after it all!

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Your "apps" ponderings are so engaging to me as it is something I think about a lot as well. Also I loved your casino analogy, it really captures a feeling

excellent new year new sauer post. let me know if you'd like to be our third

Thank you @manulzone. It's something that feels more foreign to me the less I have engaged with social media over time.

Thank you @nohappynonsense, at this point though I think I would be a better diminished fifth