headache came back just as im going to bed, somebody up there HATES me... double-barrelled blog post for today (ignore the about page, im working on it tomorrow maybe) :)

i lost nearly dozens of friends after graduating, it was deeply demoralizing. maintaining adult friendships is so difficult when everyone's no longer in close proximity to each other by default. it took me years to summon the will to proactively spend time with my friends, but i don't regret it ever. hope you can find some respite from this part of your life

@cervidaze thanks for the kind words, and yeah its only been a few months since graduating and i can feel the difficulty already, but i will try!! because i have to (and i will try to relax as much as i can as well :) )