Around me, surely reflecting a majority, when someone does not respond quickly, and takes several days to respond: it's unacceptable. When you think about it, it’s totally crazy. According to them: we should be reachable constantly...
https://fuyarde.neocities.org/posts/disconnected
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very relatable
meanwhile ive somehow ended up with most if not all the ppl i more actively dm with tending to take their sweet time replying a lot of the time...has taken some pressure off my head about it all for sure, even while not fully been able to shake the need for instant-ish responses whilst im online
(but at the same time been able to leave my phone entirely home sometimes these days when going to work, as well as going on some walks w/o phone in summertime in the past few years, does feel nice to be less reachable some of the time...)