Forgotten off the top of my head how much of an asshole he is on the matter - but, with this Klinefelter syndrome stuff, you could probably spin it to your advantage if he decides to be uncooperative.
like, not to be That Person, but you could kinda gaslight him into thinking the problem was caused by being born with an extra Y chromosome (like presenting it as XX+Y, not XY+X) and then spinning the transition as treatment for dealing with that anomalous Y chromosome
I don't know, I feel like then I'd make him feel guilty for having me so late, both of my parents were very old when they had me and given that this also has increased risk with age... idk I guess it could be my last resort. Thanks for the help!!!
like y'know 'umm actually I was meant to go through female puberty instead and this is treatment to rectify that issue'
He's still my dad I don't want to hurt him and he has a lot of free time cuz he doesn't work (long story) he'd probably do research on this to try and dissprove my diagnosis or something (he didn't accept my autism diagnosis either)
Well, I suppose there is that emotional blackmail route - it puts an obligation on him to fix the problem caused by him being late to decide to have you so he's obliged to help you to gain treatment with this issue (aka allow you to transition) 🙏🙏🙏🙃🙃🙃😤
Yeah... I don't know just seems extreme, then again he has done similar stuff to me. A few years back he wanted me to do something I don't remember and coherced me into doing it by saying I shouldn't make him unhappy in his "final days"
I'll def keep it in mind but I still want to believe he'll take it well enough to not warrant a nuclear option
to be honest, I have no idea either; but it's positive to see that things are happening
Went on a massive tangent but it's fine. Who knew that looking back at how sad I was some weeks ago would make me sad