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well, if you're in a group chat with him already, I guess sending him a DM (instead of sending it to the whole gc) might be a safe bet. And if you'd prefer to get his reaction in person, you could send him a 'hey I sorta need to tell you something, when would be a good time for you?' or smth to that extent.

I think I'll opt to just tell him in writing, like I said I think he suspects something is up because of how our first convo went... Thanks for the tip!