juntogawa
3 weeks ago
Sites like Reddit are where disoriented people ask for help, but the answers they get are from other disoriented people, because they are the only ones who want to be there at all. That's where we who know something should be to give better answers to the disoriented people (without getting caught up in the culture and becoming as disoriented as the rest over there).
juntogawa
3 weeks ago
To maybe explain the metaphor better: Normally people would like to get a faster train, or a better train. Or rush to the train to get on it. Or buy tickets in advance so you don't miss your schedule. But I just want to live near the train station and catch a train when the opportunity strikes.
juntogawa
3 weeks ago
With the right intrinsic motivation, the next steps will come naturally and you'll eventually gain enough experience to be able to make realistic plans, judge your own work objectively, filter out your wrong preconceived notions and common societal myths (because you know the truth from practical experience), and gain skills in your domain, so that you can improve and get further.
juntogawa
3 weeks ago
Not doing it for results (money, fame, acceptance, success, whatever), also makes it easy to remove ego. Without ego you'll see people's criticism of you, as well as your own self-criticism, for what it is and not let the emotions arising from them control you and make you give up or cater to anyone.
juntogawa
3 weeks ago
The thing is, I can write this how much I want, but information won't change you. Change comes from your own emotions. Maybe that's why you should do the right thing and hope people feel inspired instead of telling people to do the right thing.
this is really well articulated, i love how you talked about doing things naturally...i think i feel the same way. some things i dont need to "make an effort", i just do bc it feels natural. love your writeup