My best advice for this is very easily to look at more media that has types of female characters you personally vibe with. It's hard to get started on writing new things, but seeing others do it can help give you a better idea.
I try to focus on health instead of results. Mostly because it's a better thing to care about, but... *speaks in a lower tone* also because it allows me to reach better results (Don't tell anyone!)
I know of this contradiction, and I make use of it, but at the same time I don't allow myself to believe in it, because then it would stop working...
Episode 1: E1M1 E1M2 E1M4 E1M5 E1M7. Episode 2: E2M1 E2M2 E1M8 E2M4 E2M8. Episode 3: E3M1 E3M6 E3M8 E4M1 E4M2. (Remove: E1M3 E1M6 E1M9 E3M2)
I think I've put them in the right order in the game file now. I'm too bad at the game to go through the levels to see if they're there.