LavenderCola

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lavendercola updated their site.
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lavendercola's avatar lavendercola 10 hours ago

New blog post! It's mostly about my financial woes. Read to the end to be rewarded with a cute cat pic though

I finally have a couple buttons on my site! Yippee!
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lavendercola updated their site.
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lavendercola's avatar lavendercola 6 days ago

New blog post about the importance of community! I hope to start posting on my blog at least once a week for at least the next month or so. I have so many ideas and am having fun with it. I'll try to consistently post on Mondays and try to make a routine of it. We'll see how that goes.

Thanks for the follow back! Your site is beautiful, I love it:) Also, super cool that you work at a library, I love my local library and wanted to be a librarian for a while. I guess I still kind of do want to, but of course it requires a college education and I dropped out, haha.
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justasmidge's avatar justasmidge 1 week ago

thanks for stumbling on it! i have a lot of tweaking to do but i was actually about to scrap some of it, then you came by with some kind words haha. i really enjoyed your blog, and excited to see your site grow too! & it's never too late, friend. there's tons of other jobs in libraries other than librarians that are just as vital that don't require the overly pompous degree ♡

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lavendercola's avatar lavendercola 1 week ago

Well I'm glad I can give you some kind words and encourage you to keep on keepin' on with the site! thanks for looking at my blog too, that means a lot :) I've been thinking about going back to school, but I guess along with the other hurdles I face, I just don't know exactly what the end goal would be career wise. Maybe I'll look more into it though

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thank you for the follow :)
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lavendercola updated their site.
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lavendercola's avatar lavendercola 1 week ago

New blog post that isn't as polished as I think the topic deserves, but I guess I just wanted to get my thoughts out there

lavendercola updated their site.
2 weeks ago
Hi! I came across your older blog post that's partially about not wanting to take a GLP-1 medication. Just wanted to say thanks for your honesty with it, it's so refreshing to hear someone with a similar perspective. I'm working on a piece for my site about similar feelings, which is how I came to find yours. it's definitely complicated when people in my life are shrinking and I feel pressure to do the same.
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lavender-cowboy's avatar lavender-cowboy 2 weeks ago

Thank you for your comment! I could absolutely go more into depth on the subject especially with time passed, I've had a lot of time to think on it and many new experiences. I am still firm on not using GLP-1's. Whenever my mind thinks "maybe it would be easier than being my current weight" it feels like a resignation against myself.

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lavendercola's avatar lavendercola 2 weeks ago

Ugh, so relatable. I'd love to hear more of your thoughts on the topic if you're ever up to talk about it! feel free to email me at lavendercola@proton.me, but no pressure of course:)

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