soo... update on the broken cursor:
it's because of the script i used having an "onload event handler" which can break other scripts. i guess i have to say farewell to the custom cursor T_T
something broke with the custom cursor on my site, and now i have to fix it >:(
on my Tumblr custom HTML it works just fine, so i don't know what the heck broke that it just made my custom cursor vanish from existence.
so... the only thing i can do is do whatever and pray it fixes itself