============================== === Section 1: Core Values === ============================== The Google Form for this section: https://forms.gle/XnH4V5ooj8ujdgKJ9 1. Generally speaking, would you say that most normal people can be trusted? [ ] Yes, most normal people are trustworthy. [ ] No, you cannot trust anyone. 2. Generally speaking, do you think that most normal people would try to take advantage of you if they got the chance, or would they try to be fair? [ ] Most normal people would try to be fair. [ ] People are always trying to take advantage of me. 3. Would you want to be there to take care of an ill partner? [ ] Yes, that's what any normal person would do. [ ] It depends. [ ] No. 4. Do you think people are capable of being in lifelong monogamous relationships with one person? [ ] Yes, that's normal. [ ] No, humans did not evolve to be a sexually monogamous species. 5. Is it normal for people to tell at least one lie per day? [ ] Yes, studies have shown that most people lie at least once a day. [ ] No, it's not normal. 6. Do you think it’s human nature to flirt, even when you’re with someone? [ ] Yes, so I'm okay with it. [ ] Yes, so I need to keep my partner on a tight leash. [ ] No, flirting is not something that normal people do. 7. Do you think a straight man and a straight woman can truly just be friends? [ ] Yes, that's normal. [ ] No, that's impossible. 8. How do you feel about cheating in relationships? [ ] Sometimes it just happens. To expect absolute fidelity is simply unrealistic. [ ] It's not something that a normal person would ever do. 9. Is jealousy healthy in a relationship? [ ] Yes, it's unavoidable. [ ] No, it's not something that happens in a normal relationship. 10. Do you believe in soul mates? [ ] Yes, there is only one cosmically predestined, all-understanding perfect partner out there who is meant for me. [ ] No, there are thousands if not millions of normal people out there who are compatible with me. 11. Do you believe in fate? [ ] Yes, what is going to happen will happen. [ ] No, actions have consequences. 12. Do you believe in love at first sight? [ ] Yes, love at first sight is often the deepest and most enduring type of love. [ ] No, love develops slowly out of admiration, respect, and appreciation of someone's good character. 13. Have you ever thrown an object in anger during an argument? [ ] Yes. [ ] No, but I might. [ ] No, it's not something I would ever do. 14. How do you consider yourself to be in terms of logic and emotion? [ ] Mostly logical. [ ] Mostly emotional. [ ] Equally logical and emotional. 15. Are you annoyed by people who are super logical? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 16. Do you believe reason is more important than emotions in solving problems? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 17. Do you like logic puzzles? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 18. Can a statement and its negation both be true? [ ] Yes, it's possible. [ ] No, that would violate the law of the excluded middle. [ ] I hate logic. 19. If some men are doctors and some doctors are tall, does it follow that some men are tall? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] I HATE LOGIC!!! 20. Honestly, which do you do more of? [ ] Watch television. [ ] Read. 21. How many hours of television do you watch per week? [ ] None. [ ] 1-7. [ ] 8-20. [ ] My brain is fried. 22. Do you find yourself affected more by movies than by real life? [ ] Yes! [ ] No… [ ] I sure hope not. 23. Which would you prefer your ideal match to be more into? [ ] Sports. [ ] Books. [ ] Music. [ ] Movies. 24. Do you expect your partner to put you on a pedestal (i.e. you want them to see you as a perfect, flawless being)? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 25. How do you feel about criticism? [ ] My partner should keep quiet about my flaws. [ ] I have no flaws. [ ] I don’t want criticism unless I ask for it. [ ] I always welcome criticism. 26. Do you believe that men who are sitting down should stand up when a woman comes to the table/enters the room? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 27. If your child wanted to become an adult film star, how would you react? [ ] I would encourage them. [ ] I would try to talk them out of it. [ ] I wouldn't care. They can do whatever they want. 28. Is it important to you to have lots of expensive possessions (jewelry, clothes, etc)? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 29. Has anyone ever accused you of being “high maintenance”? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 30. How often should your significant other buy you gifts, jewelry, or other things more expensive than, say, dinner, cards, or flowers? [ ] Very frequently. [ ] From time to time. [ ] On special occasions (birthdays, Christmas, etc) [ ] Never. 31. How important is money/wealth for you in a match? [ ] Very important. [ ] Somewhat important. [ ] Not important at all. 32. It’s your first date. Do you: [ ] Have them pay the whole bill. [ ] Split the bill. [ ] Pay the whole bill. 33. Do you feel you need to live in a similar fashion as your friends? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 34. Would you be happy to get married without a wedding, in order to save money? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 35. Do you agree with “women should be mysterious for the first few dates and play hard to get”? [ ] Yes, it's a good idea. [ ] No, absolutely not. 36. Do you think the basic instinct to survive and reproduce fundamentally drives every decision a person makes? [ ] Yes, that's just a fact. [ ] No, it's clearly false. 37. Do you think any person is truly selfless? [ ] Yes, I see such people every day. [ ] No, such people only exist in fairy tales. 38. Which is more respectable, a sense of responsibility towards others, or a willful sense of individualism? [ ] Responsibility. [ ] Individualism. 39. What is the most important thing to you? [ ] Having lots of money and/or expensive things. [ ] Being successful in a career or profession. [ ] Doing things my own way and being free and independent. [ ] Doing lots of different things in life. [ ] Ensuring that everyone in the world is treated equally. [ ] Looking after the environment. [ ] Being a good spouse and looking after my family. [ ] Having a good time. I like to spoil myself. [ ] Having lots of free time to relax or do things I want to do. [ ] Living an exciting life. [ ] Being in charge and telling others what to do. 40. What is the most important thing in a marriage? [ ] Having a high income. [ ] Having similar tastes in TV shows and music. [ ] Working together and upholding the marriage vows. [ ] Sexual compatibility. [ ] Respecting each other's privacy. 41. Which makes for a better relationship? [ ] Passion. [ ] Dedication. 42. Would you rather a partner who: [ ] Says I love you, but doesn’t seem to show it. [ ] Shows they love you, but never says it. 43. Which statement you agree with more: [ ] Parents' duty is to do their best for their children even at the expense of their own well-being. [ ] Parents have a life of their own and should not be asked to sacrifice their own well-being for the sake of their children. 44. Is the following statement true? “You can only truly love another if you love yourself.” [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 45. When it comes to sports, do you usually prefer to play those that are individual- or team-oriented? [ ] Team. [ ] Individual. 46. How important is it to you to have your own unique thing (like a weekly girls’ night or guys’ night) that you don’t share with your partner? [ ] Very – I need some me time to be happy. [ ] I’d prefer not to have exclusive things. 47. Ideally, what portion of your total hobbies and other recreational activities would you like to share as common with a partner? [ ] All. [ ] Up to one-half. [ ] None. 48. Would you feel comfortable going away on a vacation by yourself? [ ] Yes, I enjoy going on vacation by myself. [ ] No, it would be pointless without a partner. 49. Would you be willing to support a spouse who stays home to raise the kids? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 50. Would you be happy raising the kids while your spouse worked? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 51. Should spouses know one another’s passwords? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 52. Would you consent to carry a device that tracked your location in real time so that your spouse could locate your position any time they wanted? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. 53. Which is more important in a healthy relationship? [ ] Maintaining privacy. [ ] Total openness. 54. Do you like to be the center of attention? [ ] Yes, always. [ ] Yes, sometimes. [ ] No, never. 55. When all is said and done, which would you rather be? [ ] Infamous. [ ] Unknown. ================================================ === Section 2: Traditional vs Liberal Values === ================================================ For each of the following statements, please indicate whether you agree or disagree: - A man is good for nothing if he can't produce a steady paycheck. - Once I get a man to commit to me, I usually put him on a tight leash. - In a good relationship, the woman gets her way most of the time. - Happy wife, happy life. - I cannot tolerate it when my partner argues with me. - Women should always get the final say in the decision about whether to have a child. - If you have to ask your partner for something‚ it shows that he was not “tuned into” your needs. - A partner should know what you are thinking or feeling without you having to tell. - My partner should anticipate my needs by sensing changes in my moods. - On a date, the man should pay all expenses. - I would think less of a man who stayed home with the kids while the woman was the main breadwinner. - If I am around a woman who is more beautiful than me, it makes me feel like less of a woman. - Having the finer things in life is important to me. - If a man walks away from a fight, he's a weakling and a coward. - To be a guy, you've got to be tough. - When I am married‚ I will do anything to protect my family. - A guy should prove his masculinity by having sex with a lot of people. - A woman should be careful not to appear smarter than the man she is dating. - I often ask for help when I don’t need it. - It’s not wise to tell your secrets. - In order for my partner to love me‚ I cannot reveal certain things about myself to him. - Family issues can be kept private from my spouse. - My partner and I should disclose everything to each other – nothing should be kept secret. - I’m not obligated to tell my partner anything. - My spouse has a right to know everything that I do and where I am at all times. - If your partner expresses disagreement with your ideas‚ he/she probably does not think highly of you. - I am an average person. - No matter how angry I am‚ I am responsible for my behavior toward my partner. - Even if a guy is not rich, he should try to look that way. - My date’s looks are more important to me than his personality. - The main way I plan to care for my family is to get the highest paying job I can. - I feel embarrassed if someone compliments me. - I get angry if someone turns down having sex with me. - I like to use clever manipulation to get my way. - You should wait for the right time to get back at people. - People who mess with me always regret it. - Often I look happy on the outside‚ but inwardly I feel angry. - Guys should have a positive attitude towards life and not let things get them down. - A guy should be confident in everything he does. 56. In a relationship, how important is it for you to be in control? [ ] Very important. [ ] Somewhat important. [ ] Not at all important. 57. Do you act more courteous and respectful while dating than you normally do? [ ] Yes [ ] No 58. Do you put special effort into your appearance while dating that you wouldn’t after marriage? [ ] Yes [ ] No 59. Will you stop eating healthy and allow your weight to rise after marriage? [ ] Yes [ ] No 60. Which would you prefer in terms of distributing decision making power in an ‘ideal’ relationship? [ ] I would make most of the decisions. [ ] My partner would make most of the decisions. [ ] Decisions made jointly through consensus. [ ] Distribution based upon traditional gender roles. 61. Which of the following statements do you agree with more? [ ] Roles in the family should be filled according to tradition and convention. [ ] Roles in the family should be filled according to individual abilities. [ ] Everyone must do the exact same amount of everything. [ ] My partner should do everything. 62. Do you admire men who are totally sure of themselves? [ ] Yes [ ] No 63. Do you believe that men cannot be trusted or respected? [ ] Yes [ ] No 64. Do you think it is appropriate to use sex as a negotiating tool? [ ] Yes [ ] No 65. If you were to get married, would you want your partner to change his or her last name to yours? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] I would want them to make their own decision. 66. If married, when would you expect your partner to wear a wedding ring? [ ] Most or all of the time. [ ] Some of the time. It’s situation dependent. [ ] Seldom or not at all. [ ] Only when they want to. 67. Toilet Seat, up or down? [ ] Up. [ ] Down. [ ] Whatever my partner wishes. [ ] Either is fine with me. 68. Is it ok for a woman to ask a man out on a date? [ ] Yes, it’s perfectly ok [ ] Yes, but it comes across as desperate [ ] No 69. Do you prefer to pursue a potential partner, or for them to pursue you? [ ] I’d rather pursue. [ ] I’d rather be pursued. [ ] I prefer a little of both. 70. Is it ok for men to be “househusbands”? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I’m Not Sure 71. On a daily basis, do you spend a lot of time trying to make yourself look good? [ ] Yes [ ] No 72. Is being "in-style" with regards to fashion important to you? [ ] Yes, Extremely [ ] Yeah, sometimes [ ] Not really [ ] No Way! 73. How often do you feel the need to add to your wardrobe? [ ] More than twenty times a year. [ ] Five to twenty times a year. [ ] One to four times a year. [ ] Less than once a year. 74. If you see an attractive stranger (offline), do you introduce yourself? [ ] Yes, usually [ ] Yes, but only in certain settings (bars, clubs) [ ] Once in a while [ ] Never ==================================== === Section 3: Emotion vs Reason === ==================================== 75. How often do you ‘take it out’ on other people when you’re having a bad day? [ ] Always. [ ] Frequently. [ ] Occasionally. [ ] Never. 76. How often do you do things out of spite? [ ] Very often. [ ] Sometimes. [ ] Rarely. [ ] Never. 77. Do you get angry when you lose a game? [ ] Usually [ ] Sometimes [ ] Never 78. Do you become very angry when criticized? [ ] Usually [ ] Sometimes [ ] Never 79. What's your approach to planning things? [ ] I'm very systematic [ ] I just let things work themselves out [ ] I have to be in the right mood to plan things 80. Do you believe in the accuracy of horoscopes? [ ] Yes [ ] No 81. Do you believe that astrology can be useful in making personality judgments? [ ] Yes [ ] No 82. Do you play the lottery? [ ] Constantly [ ] Sometimes [ ] Never [ ] There is no lottery in my area 83. You’re walking around in public and you see a very attractive member of your preferred sex. You walk a little faster to get a better look and you see them light and take an elegant puff of a cigarette. What is your reaction? [ ] Intrigue/Interest/Positive feeling [ ] Disgust/Disappointment/Negative feeling [ ] Indifference 84. Not ideally, but realistically, do you flock to the “bad” boys/girls? [ ] Yes [ ] No 85. Tattoos? [ ] Turn on [ ] Turn off 86. Piercings? [ ] Turn on [ ] Turn off 87. If you could have brilliant skill at something, would you prefer: [ ] Something practical [ ] Something fun 88. Is it a turn on for you to be with someone mysterious? [ ] Yes [ ] No 89. While evaluating someone you are dating, do you find yourself placing much importance on how good of a parent you think they’ll make? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] Just a little. 90. Would you dump someone simply because they weren’t good at sex? [ ] Yes [ ] No 91. Would you do something outrageous, stupid, or adventurous simply because it would make a good story to tell later? [ ] Yes, whenever possible. [ ] Yes, but nothing too crazy. [ ] Maybe, depends on what and who with. [ ] No, and please don’t run with scissors. 92. Is it okay for you to be irrational in making important life decisions? [ ] Yes [ ] No 93. Does the idea of flipping a coin to make important life decisions appeal to you? [ ] Yes [ ] No 94. What do you do with your money? [ ] Spend it all and live paycheck to paycheck. [ ] Save some for an emergency fund; spend the rest. [ ] Save some/most of it, but not invest it. [ ] Save some/most of it and invest it. 95. Are you attracted to dangerous situations? [ ] Yes [ ] No 96. Imagine being all alone in the great outdoors, miles from anyone, with no communication device. Nobody knows where you are. [ ] This is something I would like. [ ] This is something I would avoid. 97. Would you rather be 10 minutes late, or an hour early? [ ] 10 minutes late [ ] An hour early 98. If you were going away for two weeks, how far in advance would you start packing? [ ] I would pack at least two days before I leave. [ ] I would pack on the day before I leave. [ ] I would pack on the same day I leave. [ ] I would not pack at all. 99. Do you try to eat healthy, or do you just eat whatever you feel like? [ ] Healthy [ ] Give me the junk food 100. What are your eating preferences? [ ] Vegan – Nothing that even comes from an animal [ ] Vegetarian – I’ll eat certain animal products. [ ] Carnivore – Meat, Meat, Meat. That’s it. [ ] Omnivore – Balanced meal. 101. If you don’t do anything at all for an entire day, how does that make you feel? [ ] Good [ ] Bad 102. Which is more important: a person’s opinion or how they arrived at their opinion? [ ] A person’s opinion. [ ] How they arrived at their opinion. [ ] Neither is important. 103. Do you need to improve yourself? [ ] Yes [ ] No 104. Is it more important to you that you are tactful, or truthful? [ ] Tactful [ ] Truthful 105. Little white lies to make people feel better… [ ] Are necessary [ ] Are sometimes needed [ ] Are wrong 106. Is it possible for your partner to reveal too much information? [ ] Yes, I prefer a little bit of mystery [ ] Maybe, I want to know all the important stuff [ ] No, I want to know everything 107. Would you rather know everything about your mate, or be regularly surprised? [ ] Surprised [ ] All-knowing 108. In a conversation someone says a word you don’t understand. What do you do? [ ] Pretend to understand it. [ ] Ask what it means. [ ] Try to figure it out from context clues. [ ] Remember it and look it up later. 109. If a child were to ask you a question that you do not know the answer to, how might you respond? [ ] I'd make an educated guess. [ ] I'd admit I don't know. [ ] I'd pretend I know, but 'Figure it out yourself.' 110. How well do you handle criticism? [ ] Really well [ ] Not that well [ ] Not at all 111. How easily are you offended? [ ] Very easily. [ ] Somewhat easily. [ ] Not very easily. 112. When you are at the movies with your date or your friends, how much talking does it take to make you upset? [ ] No talking allowed upon the start of the film [ ] Talking during and usually about the trailers [ ] Little comments during the movie. [ ] Constant chatter, to you, others, or a cell phone 113. Is it easy for you to apologize when you know you have made a mistake? [ ] Yes [ ] No 114. Do you ever intentionally seek out reading material that fundamentally disagrees with your beliefs? [ ] Yes [ ] No 115. Would you ever eat something out of the trash? [ ] Yes [ ] Maybe (if it’s still good) [ ] No 116. Do you generally wash your hands before preparing food? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] I do if I'm serving other people. [ ] I do if I'm preparing it for myself. 117. Do you check to be certain all of the entry doors at your residence are locked before going to sleep? [ ] Always. [ ] Never. [ ] Sometimes. 118. If you dropped a piece of solid food on the floor, might you pick it up and eat it? [ ] Yes [ ] No 119. Imagine you are at a party at friend’s house. You drop a piece of food on the floor. From where you are standing, the floor and the food both look clean. Which would you most likely do? [ ] Pick it up and eat it. [ ] Pick it up and throw it away. [ ] Pick it up and put it back for another to eat. [ ] Ignore it. 120. Do you drink milk and juice straight out of the carton and then put it back in the fridge? [ ] Yes, I drink it straight from the carton. [ ] Sometimes–if no one else around to see. [ ] Yes. Only because I don’t live with anyone else. [ ] Ewww. No, that’s gross. I pour it first. 121. Do you ever eat in bed? [ ] Yes [ ] No 122. Do you think that a person’s musical preferences are a good indicator of intelligence? [ ] Yes [ ] No 123. How many concerts do you attend a year? [ ] 8+ [ ] 4-7 [ ] 1-3 [ ] 0, typically 124. Do you write poetry? [ ] Yes [ ] No 125. Is art important to you? [ ] Yes [ ] No =================================== === Section 4. Mate Preferences === =================================== 126. Would you rather date someone extremely hot or extremely honest? [ ] Extremely hot [ ] Extremely honest 127. If you had to pick one of the following types for a significant other, which would it be? [ ] Wholesome [ ] A little on the slutty side [ ] Crazy and colorful [ ] Dark and mysterious 128. If I had to choose among the following for an ideal romantic partner, I’d choose: [ ] Someone attractive and kind. [ ] Someone smart and kind. [ ] Someone attractive and smart. 129. Would you rather have your dream job or your soul mate for the rest of your life? [ ] Dream Job [ ] Soul Mate 130. Would you prefer to have one true love forever, or lots of fun and meaningful relationships? [ ] One true love [ ] Lots of relationships 131. Looking toward the future, which of the following do you see as most important for you in ten years? [ ] Being in a good relationship. [ ] Having a good job. [ ] Being wealthy. [ ] Being healthy. 132. Would you consider dating someone who’s never been in a relationship before? [ ] Yes, that would be great [ ] Yes, I think [ ] I don’t know, I don’t think I could [ ] No way! 133. Are you still in love with one or more of your former partners? [ ] Yes – One of them. [ ] Yes – More than one. [ ] No. [ ] No – I’ve never been in love with a partner. 134. Could you date someone who loved you with all their heart, and whom you liked a lot, but who was terrible in bed? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I’m Not Sure 135. What would be more likely to bother you in a relationship? [ ] Not enough space [ ] Not enough affection 136. If you had a potentially harmful addiction such as smoking, drinking, or drugs, how do you think you would you feel if a significant other tried to get you to stop? [ ] Grateful. [ ] Annoyed. [ ] Angry. [ ] Indifferent. 137. Would it be a problem for you if you discovered your partner is a terrible dancer? [ ] Yes [ ] No 138. Would you date someone who was already in a committed relationship with someone else? [ ] Yes, even in secret. [ ] Yes, but only if everybody knew. [ ] No, but I don’t think it’s inherently wrong. [ ] No, it’s wrong. 139. Someone in an open relationship asks you out on a date. You: [ ] Refuse / Aren’t interested in open relationships [ ] Are hesitant, but would consider it [ ] Accept / Are open to non-monogamous relationships 140. On a scale of 1 to 8, with 1 being exclusively straight and 8 exclusively gay, where do you fall? [ ] 1-2 [ ] 3-4 [ ] 5-6 [ ] 7-8 141. Would you prefer to date someone way dumber than you, or way smarter? [ ] Way smarter [ ] Way dumber ================================ === Section 5. Miscellaneous === ================================ 142. Homeschooling is… [ ] Something I would do for my kids [ ] Bad [ ] Something I would consider 143. Should parents reward children with money for getting good grades? [ ] Yes [ ] No 144. Would you let your kids watch as much t.v. as they wanted, as long as they said their homework was done? [ ] Yes [ ] No 145. Will you teach your children to believe in Santa? [ ] Yes [ ] No 146. Is anything in life more important than your own self-interest? [ ] Yes [ ] No 147. Do you care whether or not humanity survives beyond your own lifetime? [ ] Yes. I hope it does. [ ] Yes. I hope it does not. [ ] No. 148. Do you think head games are unavoidable, even in the healthiest of relationships? [ ] Yes [ ] No 149. Do you hold the door open for someone behind you? [ ] Yes [ ] No 150. A friend has become homeless. Would you let them stay with you until they are back on their feet? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I’m Not Sure 151. Have you ever given up your bus, subway, or train seat for a stranger who seemed to need it more? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] I’ve never been in this situation. 152. You realize after about two minutes that you’ve accidentally given a stranger incorrect directions. You are both traveling on foot. You: [ ] Try to catch up and remedy this [ ] Let somebody else worry about it 153. If you were forced to betray one of the following, which one would you choose? [ ] Your friends [ ] Your family [ ] Your partner [ ] Your country 154. Do you think the standard of western morality has declined in the last thirty years? [ ] Yes, I yearn for better values. [ ] No, things are better now. [ ] Can’t compare. Values are relative. / Don’t know 155. The most important question to ask yourself when making a decision is… [ ] Will everyone be happy? [ ] Is it the right thing to do? [ ] Will I get what I want? 156. Does your culture, ethnicity, or race play a large role in your identity? [ ] It plays a crucial part in who I am [ ] It’s interesting, but not really [ ] Who I am is completely independent of my heritage 157. Would you consider trying a dish made from dog meat? [ ] Yes [ ] No 158. Given that celebrities are often role models to kids, do you think they have a moral obligation to act with that in mind? [ ] Yes [ ] No 159. Regardless of future plans, what’s more interesting to you right now? [ ] Sex [ ] Love 160. Have you ever told someone that you loved them when you didn’t? [ ] Yes [ ] No 161. Do you like to play pranks on strangers? [ ] Yes [ ] No 162. If after having a nice chat with someone online, they seem to be ignoring you completely the next day. Which would be closest to your reaction? [ ] I'd try to contact them repeatedly [ ] I'd be hopeful that they would make the next move [ ] I'd assume they're busy and leave them alone [ ] I'd ignore them from now on 163. What makes a better friend? [ ] Quick wit and a mischievous smile [ ] Compassionate nature and a shoulder to support you 164. Which comes first, family or friends? [ ] Family [ ] Friends 165. If a close friend doesn’t call you for a week, do you start worrying that he hates you? [ ] Yes [ ] No 166. Which best describes your attitude toward dating? [ ] Dating is something I enjoy for its own sake. [ ] Dating can be fun, but it should lead to more. [ ] I don’t like dating, but it’s a means to an end. [ ] I do not like dating, period. 167. Do you make an effort to appear intimidating to others? [ ] Yes, always. [ ] No, never. [ ] Sometimes. 168. Is VERY short hair on a woman necessarily unattractive? [ ] Yes [ ] No 169. Would you ever sleep with a porn star? [ ] Yes [ ] No 170. Would you consider having a serious relationship with an active porn star? [ ] Yes [ ] No 171. Would you consider dating a divorced person? [ ] Yes, definitely [ ] I’d prefer not [ ] Definitely no 172. Would you consider dating someone who has a tattoo with an ex’s name? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] It would depend upon the name. 173. How often do you tell your platonic friends that you love them? [ ] Almost every time I see them. [ ] Occasionally. [ ] Never. 174. How often do you give Facebook updates? [ ] All the time [ ] Sometimes [ ] Rarely [ ] Never 175. Approximately how many hours per week do you dedicate to spiritual activity? [ ] Zero. [ ] One hour or less. [ ] One to four hours. [ ] More than four hours. 176. Do you think drug use with your partner can be a romantic activity? [ ] Yes [ ] No 177. How often do you send greeting cards for holidays and birthdays? [ ] Always [ ] Sometimes [ ] Never 178. Your friends are: [ ] mostly dudes [ ] mostly ladies [ ] a bit of both 179. Have you ever entered into a relationship out of desperation? [ ] Yes [ ] No 180. ______ Lives Matter [ ] Black [ ] All [ ] I’m not familiar with these movements / no opinion 181. Do you consider yourself an activist? [ ] Yes [ ] No 182. Do you support marriage equality? [ ] Yes [ ] No 183. Are you ready to settle down and get married right now? [ ] Absolutely [ ] No way [ ] Get married yes, settle down no [ ] Get married no, settle down yes 184. Imagine you’re having the perfect conversation with your ideal partner. What are you doing? [ ] Telling stories [ ] Debating [ ] Agreeing [ ] Making plans 185. What’s more attractive in a partner? [ ] Exercising [ ] Exercising their right to vote 186. How important is it to you that your partner takes care of their body (ie: working out, maintaining a healthy and attractive physique)? [ ] not important [ ] somewhat important [ ] very important [ ] mandatory 187. Do you like to argue? [ ] Yes [ ] No 188. Would you have children with a partner if you were not married? [ ] Yes [ ] No 189. How much have your values changed since you were 16? [ ] A lot [ ] A little [ ] Not much [ ] Not at all 190. How clear to you are your goals in life? [ ] Very clear. [ ] Somewhat clear. [ ] Not at all clear. 191. Would you consider dating someone who has no interest in sex and experiences no sexual attraction? [ ] Yes [ ] No 192. At this point, are you physically able to have children? [ ] Yes / I think so [ ] No 193. Would you consider a relationship with someone who was sterile? [ ] Yes [ ] No 194. Do you find very outgoing people annoying? [ ] Yes [ ] No 195. Are you currently employed? [ ] Yes, I have a fulltime job [ ] No [ ] I have a part-time job [ ] I’m a student 196. How tall are you? [ ] shorter than 5’6 / 1.67m [ ] 5’6 / 1.67m – 5’9 / 1.75m [ ] 5’9 / 1.75m – 6′ / 1.83m [ ] taller than 6′ / 1.83m 197. Are your birth parents divorced? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] They were never married! 198. How interested would you be in knowing the details of a partner’s sexual history? [ ] Very interested. [ ] Somewhat interested. [ ] Not interested. 199. Would you pay for porn? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] Only if I couldn’t get it for free. [ ] I’m not interested in porn. 200. Board games? [ ] What are board games? [ ] I love boardgames, let’s go play. [ ] Boardgames are okay, I guess. [ ] I’d rather do something else. 201. Animal testing is… [ ] Wrong [ ] Not wrong 202. Would you risk your life for an animal? [ ] Yes [ ] No 203. Would you continue to date someone who you felt would always put their pet(s) before you? [ ] Yes [ ] No 204. If you were to die tomorrow, would you be satisfied with the outcome of your life? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I’m Not Sure 205. Do you think that masturbation is an acceptable practice? [ ] Yes. [ ] No, it is unhealthy. [ ] No, it is against my beliefs. [ ] No, it is both unhealthy and against my beliefs. 206. Does someone’s appearance lose appeal to you if you find out it’s fake? (ie, implants, dyed hair, fake facial piercings) [ ] Yes [ ] No 207. Would you ever correct your partner for seriously misusing or mispronouncing a word? [ ] Yes [ ] No 208. What percent of the population is NOT physically attractive enough for your taste? [ ] 0-25% (few) are not attractive enough [ ] 25-50% (some) are not attractive enough [ ] 50-75% (many) are not attractive enough [ ] 75-100% (most) are not attractive enough 209. Would you consider dating an animal rights activist? [ ] Yes [ ] No 210. Do you ever lie to yourself? [ ] Yes. [ ] No. [ ] I’m not sure that is even possible. 211. If you really liked someone, would you make an effort to clean up before they saw your place for the first time? [ ] Yes, I’d want to make a good first impression. [ ] No, someone who really likes me won’t care. [ ] I’d clean up a little, I guess. 212. If it were legal to do so, would you ever consider paying for sex? [ ] Yes [ ] No 213. Would you be able to date someone that was unwilling to share their family history with you? [ ] Yes, I’d be dating them not their family. [ ] No, What the heck are they hiding? [ ] Dunno, depends. 214. Do you kiss on the first date? [ ] Under the right circumstance, Yes [ ] Never [ ] Always 215. Would you ever consider an open marriage? That means you can sleep with other people. [ ] Yes [ ] No 216. You discover that a partner has a huge amount of financial debt and has been hiding it from you. Which is closest to how you would react? [ ] Dump them for dishonesty. [ ] Dump them for financial reasons. [ ] Stay with them, but their debt is their problem. [ ] Stay with them, and offer to help pay their debt. 217. If you found out that your partner had lied to you about something significant in their life, would that be grounds to terminate the relationship? [ ] Yes [ ] No 218. While borrowing your friend’s new $500 digital camera… you drop it. It still seems to be working fine afterwards. Do you tell them what happened? [ ] Yes: it could be my fault if it breaks later. [ ] No: it could be my fault if it breaks later! [ ] Depends: how close are we, exactly? 219. Which best describes your personal feelings about sports? [ ] Sports are a very important part of my life. [ ] I play or watch sports often. [ ] I play or watch sports occasionally. [ ] I don’t watch or play sports. 220. Are you an intellectual? In the context of this question, intellectual means someone who loves learning, often for its own sake. [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I find learning boring 221. Let’s say you ask your partner a question and know with certainty that their answer is a lie, what do you do about it? [ ] Ignore it [ ] Discreetly probe for more information [ ] Call them out and see where it goes [ ] Terminate the relationship, effective immediately 222. Your significant other wants to move every few years, to experience different parts of the country or world. What’s your take on that? [ ] My bags are packed, let’s go [ ] Eh, as long as it’s not too often I guess it’s ok [ ] As long as we’re not leaving the country [ ] I’d prefer to stay put 223. Would you honestly answer any question concerning your sexual history that a partner might ask? [ ] Yes [ ] No 224. Which would you prefer? [ ] Cooking dinner. [ ] Cleaning up after dinner. 225. How many romantic partners have you lived with? [ ] 0 [ ] 1 [ ] 2-3 [ ] 4+ 226. Would you still work if you won the lottery? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] I’m not sure 227. Do you work to live or live to work? [ ] Work to live. [ ] Live to work. 228. How many children would you ideally like to have? [ ] None [ ] 1-2 [ ] 3-4 [ ] 5 or more!